Redefining Wealth with Patrice Washington
The Redefining Wealth Podcast community believes that wealth is about more than money and material possessions; it’s actually about well-being. Each week, award-winning personal finance author, international speaker, media personality and your BFF in your head, Patrice Washington, shares solo insights or enlightening guest interviews that influence the masses to live their life’s purpose, find fulfillment and earn more without chasing money.
Episodes
Thursday Mar 01, 2018
You Can’t Be Selective With Surrender
Thursday Mar 01, 2018
Thursday Mar 01, 2018
“If you fool yourself into thinking you’ve mastered something, you stop doing the work.”
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One of the scariest and hardest things we can do is surrender. We want control, and think we know what’s best.
The truth is, if you want to get where you are going you need to trust in the process. Trust that you will reach the destination you want to get to, and allow yourself to travel the path you are being taken down.
The more you fight it, the more you are going to impede your progress.
Don’t just surrender in one area of life. Surrender in all areas.
That doesn’t mean give up. You still need to continue to show up and give it your all. You just can’t dictate the path you are going down.
On this episode of the Redefining Wealth podcast, I open up about the importance of surrendering and how it changed my life.
This episode was a tough one for me. Not because I didn’t know what to do, but because it’s so personal for me. I share a lot on this episode with you and I hope you learn from my life and my mistakes.
Download this episode today to hear how I learned to surrender the hard way.
PS, when you finish this episode let me know what you thought of it by clicking the link at the bottom.
“If you are too scared to surrender, you impede your own progress.”
The Cliff Notes:
The definition of surrender is to yield to the power, control, or position of another.
Many of us struggle with surrendering.
There’s no reason to suffer in silence.
You need to surrender in all areas, not just one or two.
Wake up looking for new opportunities.
Have a daily quiet time.
Look for the blessing that is to come on the other side.
We get to tell any story that we want.
You don’t have to have it all figured out. Trust the process and let go.
Sometimes the best thing you can do is nothing.
“Your challenges aren’t happening to you, they are happening for you.”
Thursday Feb 22, 2018
Tai + Talaat McNeely: How One Couple Survived Financial Infidelity
Thursday Feb 22, 2018
Thursday Feb 22, 2018
“When I came up against this discrepancy in my character, it was tough to combat.” - Tai + Talaat McNeely
Everyone worries about their partner cheating on them, but there’s actually a different type of infidelity that is much more common and leads to just as many divorces: Financial Infidelity.
Most people don’t think about it, but when you lie to your partner about your financial standing or hide purchases or keep secret stashes, you are being dishonest no matter how you attempt to justify it.
Yes, even having that secret credit card to buy those shoes you can’t live without is deceitful.
A marriage should not only be about honesty, but working together for success. That includes your financial success.
I have a lot of people who tell me that their family always taught them to have a secret account just in case.
My response is always, “Just in case what?” If you are starting your relationship with an exit plan, maybe you need to reevaluate the person you are thinking of spending the rest of your life with.
The way your family treated money doesn’t need to be the way that you do. There’s a lot of things my family has done that I would be ashamed to do, and money is no different.
Don’t mimic what your family members do if it’s not supportive of the life or relationship you desire. Learn from their mistakes. If your aunt is giving you this advice, and she’s on her fifth husband, that might tell you something. If it’s your sister trying to help, but her husband is unhappy because he feels like a child living on his mother’s allowance, there’s a problem.
Take the positive aspects from other people, get rid of the negative, and consider the source.
On this episode of the Redefining Wealth Podcast, we are joined by a power couple: Tai and Talaat McNeely. These two started off their relationship on the wrong foot, financially, but overcame their struggles together.
Now they have a wonderful relationship that’s open and honest about their finances, and something they have learned to work on together.
Download this episode today to learn the mistakes they made early in their relationship, and how they learned to overcome their financial problems by being a team.
“Are you interpreting what your parents did with their money through the correct lens?” - Tai + Talaat McNeely
Thursday Feb 15, 2018
Grace + Ease: The Two Words I’m Adding to Every Goal This Year
Thursday Feb 15, 2018
Thursday Feb 15, 2018
“We don’t get what we want, we get what we believe.”
How many times have you got excited about something, then you felt too overwhelmed to even start? Maybe you thought it was too complicated, or that there were too many steps?
Most of the time we don’t achieve our goals because we talk ourselves out of them just as fast as we talked ourselves into them.
If you want to be successful, don’t make it complicated in your head - because it’s really not.
Let’s take this podcast for example. It started with an idea I was excited about. When I started thinking about how much work it was, it was overwhelming. I had to buy a microphone, I had to get software to record, I had to get it edited, find music for it, figure out how to get it published, where to get it published, get it on my website, etc.
It was easy to feel like I was trying to move a mountain, but I hired a coach (THANKS, VERNON ROSS!) and found it wasn’t really that hard. I just had to get started and the truth is when the ball is rolling it’s easier to move.
You just need to get started.
On this episode of Redefining Wealth, we discuss the ways we make things harder than necessary, and we find excuses not to commit.
Download this episode now and learn how you can overcome your excuses, and make your goals easier (and more fun) than binge watching Netflix.
“Progress beats perfection EVERY single time.”
The Cliff Notes:
Sometimes we hold ourselves back because we worry about the stress and burden our goals will bring.
Don’t talk yourself out of that million dollar idea.
Take your dream and simplify it down to something you can tackle one piece at a time.
Grace is the condition or fact of being favored.
Ease is the absence of difficulty or effort.
Nothing has meaning except for the meaning we attach to it.
Don’t give yourself all year to get things done.
Master fewer things as opposed to giving minimal effort to many things.
You have the resources to get to where you want to go - now.
Don’t be afraid to weed out people that aren’t a fit for you.
“Think of yourself as already being favored to succeed.”
Thursday Feb 08, 2018
Dr. Dennis Kimbro: Wealth is a Choice
Thursday Feb 08, 2018
Thursday Feb 08, 2018
“When you are the best at what you do you never have to worry about income because the marketplace will seek you out.” - Dr. Dennis Kimbro
Many times we become too focused on money. It becomes our goal, and in the end, that’s what gets in our way.
Wealth is not about money. Even money isn’t about money. The people who chase the dollar are those who come in last.
If you really want to reach a place of wealth and finances, the first thing you need to do is master your skills. Become so good at something that the world can’t turn away.
When this happens you’ll no longer need to seek out jobs or employment, the marketplace will start seeking you out.
The second is to stay committed to your passions. Becoming complacent and comfortable is what will cause you to be left behind. You need to constantly step outside of your comfort zone and push the boundaries.
Do you think Steve Jobs was ever like, “Ok, I’ve done enough?” No. He kept pushing the world of tech until the day he died.
On this episode of Redefining Wealth, we are joined by one of my mentors. This man’s book changed my life, and he helped me see the light during one of my lowest moments in life. His name is, Dr. Dennis Kimbro, and if you don’t know him, you’re in for a treat!
Dennis Kimbro is a best-selling author of five books, writing partner and master trainer for the prestigious Napoleon Hill Foundation and is on the faculty at Clark Atlanta University School of Business Administration. He is a recipient of the Dale Carnegie Personal Achievement award.
Download this episode to hear his advice on the mindset you need to achieve the life and financial success you want.
“The greatest gift we have ever been given is the ability to change our mind.” - Dr. Dennis Kimbro
The Cliff Notes:
Now is the time to make a difference.
What’s true of God, is true of you and me.
You are not broke, your circumstances are.
Mindset is key to healing.
If your heart is not in your throat at least once a week, you are living too far from the edge.
The worst place you can ever be is in your comfort zone.
The universe is rigged - in your favor.
Ego is any belief other than God.
You determine your fortune.
Don’t ever compromise your values.
Raise the standards in every area of your life.
Turn your should do’s into must do’s.
The passionate, committed mind will change the world.
Conviction is a force multiplier.
Every movement started with one individual.
There’s no financial deficit, there’s a spiritual deficit.
Believe and achieve.
If miracles aren’t occuring in your life, love is not present.
“The worst place you can ever be is in your comfort zone.” - Dr. Dennis Kimbro
Thursday Feb 01, 2018
Winn Claybaugh: Company Culture Begins with You
Thursday Feb 01, 2018
Thursday Feb 01, 2018
“Anytime there is a problem in an organization, it’s because relationships broke down.” - Winn Claybaugh
People want to work with people who give back. It’s true. In fact, 85% of consumers will choose a to spend money with a company that is committed to giving back to its communities.
It’s never too late to start giving, but it’s also never too early. If you are looking to build a business the sooner you find a way to align yourself with the community, the quicker your success will be.
Not only will people want to buy from you, but people will also want to work with you. That brings us to the next point.
Being a good leader is also about making sure the people around you are happy. You need to come in to work in a great mood, and everyone else on your team can thrive knowing they're supported.
Give people around you permission to be friendly and social. There’s no reason for things to be stiff and awkward.
Lastly know that when there is a problem that means there’s a relationship problem. People aren’t happy and they aren’t communicating properly. So instead of screaming at people, and barking orders, take the time to fix their inner problems.
That’s all anyone really wants, to be respected as human beings with feelings.
On this episode of Redefining Wealth we bring you a living legend in business. Winn Claybaugh is the Co-Founder, Co-Owner, and Dean of Paul Mitchell The School.
Winn is widely recognized as a leader in his industry. In 2004, the North American Hairstyling Awards (NAHA) named him to their Hall of Leaders for his outstanding contributions to the hair and beauty industry. American Salon magazine called him a mover of mountains and Mr. Fix-it in their November 1997 Super Heroes section.
A tireless and enthusiastic volunteer, Winn has served as vice president of the AIDS Relief Fund for Beauty Professionals, and he has been involved in other fundraising projects for City of Hope and Leeza Gibbons'.
In the past three years, Winn and the Paul Mitchell Schools have raised over $1 million for multiple charitable organizations, including the American Cancer Society, the Larry King Cardiac Foundation, Leeza's Place, Katrina relief, AIDS causes, City of Hope, and more.
Download this episode of Redefining Wealth to learn exactly how to create a company culture that will skyrocket your business.
“Always be in a great mood. Fake it when necessary.” - Winn Claybaugh
The Cliff Notes:
Don’t compare yourself to your competitors.
Follow your own heart.
Create a space where people just want to be there.
You don’t have to train people to hug, you just have to give them permission.
There are myths that you have to be mean to your employees.
Be nice to yourself first.
Think about your needs, not just everyone else’s.
Make sure your walks lines up with your talk.
How you live your life is what should be sending your message.
Choose the people in your life slow.
And employee who won’t do something means there is an attitude problem.
An employee that can’t do something means there is training needed.
People don’t run your company, systems run your company.
Write things down so they know what’s expected of them.
The purpose of a meeting should be to communicate and connect as a team.
Be attracted to people who are famous and successful for the right reasons.
If you can’t apply what you’ve been learning, it means nothing.
Don’t sit on information, immediately put it into action.
Progress beats perfection.
Faith gives you hope.
85% of consumers will choose a to spend money with a company that is committed to giving back to its communities.
People want to work for a company that is globally aware.
“I just say yes and figure it out later.” - Winn Claybaugh
Thursday Jan 25, 2018
Tera Carissa Hodges: History Does Not Dictate Destiny
Thursday Jan 25, 2018
Thursday Jan 25, 2018
“You have to remain in the present when you dream” - Tera Carissa Hodges
Don’t let people lie to you, there are haters out there. The more you chase your purpose, the more they will appear.
One thing you can’t let them do is take you away from your purpose. It’s important to stay strong, know who you are, and be confident in your mission.
And if you’re not where you want to be in life yet, remember that you can always rebound from anything. After the recession, I was literally scraping change off the street. Now, today, my life is wealthier than ever in all aspects.
All you have to do is be willing to grow and evolve. And along your journey, just remember what our amazing guest on this episode says - “you can not have a resurrection without a crucifixion.”
Speaking of our guest, we are joined by one of the most powerful speakers I’ve ever been blessed to be around, Tera Carissa Hodges. I’ve been following Tera for quite some time, and it truly is an honor to share her with you.
Tera enjoys being of service to all mankind. She’s an empowerment champion through her speaking, media appearances, coaching, and mentoring. She’s always helping people become empowered, despite their past and mistakes is her passion. She enjoys serving the community through outreach initiatives and organizations she supports.
From her Life Now Luncheons were she encourages women of all ages to press pass their pain and live their best life now, to anti-bullying campaigns for teens, and more, she travels extensively domestically and internationally to minister in speaking, media interviews and more.
Tera is a woman of many accomplishments and mistakes, her motto is: We all make mistakes. But we don't have to allow our mistakes to make us. Move on and GROW FORWARD.
Download this episode today to hear how you can grow, deal with haters, and be more in touch with your spiritual side along the way.
“Your past will point you in the direction of your millions.” - Tera Carissa Hodges
The Cliff Notes:
There are haters in the world, and you have to know who you are to be confident in the battle.
You also need to know who you are not.
You can not have a resurrection without a crucifixion.
When you do purpose work, not just busy work, you are going to come under attack.
Your past will identify the audience who is not only willing to receive you but is willing to pay for you.
You can rebound from anything.
When you bash other people’s past it’s because you can’t accept your past.
Learn to recognize what’s worth fighting, and what’s worth leaving alone.
If you want to read sections of the Bible, focus on Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John.
It’s important to be willing to grow and evolve.
Just because you start in one place, spiritually, doesn’t mean you have to stay there.
Loyalty has an expiration date.
Your past, pain and passion will help you define your purpose.
Pay attention to the people who have a problem with you saying no.
No one who is successful has had an easy past, everyone has had to go through something.
“There’s no shame in your journey.” - Tera Carissa Hodges
Thursday Jan 18, 2018
Egypt Sherrod: Simplicity Drives Success
Thursday Jan 18, 2018
Thursday Jan 18, 2018
“Money will not feed your soul.” - Egypt Sherrod
As you know, space is an important pillar. It’s not about faking it and throwing all your junk in drawers.
It’s about finding your value and showing it through your surroundings. If you have old dirty socks hiding in your desk drawer, they’re still there. They’re still showing you that you don’t mentally value yourself.
Everything is a reflection of your mental state, from the mess in your garage to the clothes on your back. In fact, if all you buy are clearance items, you’re saying you aren’t worthy of nice things.
Like today’s guest says, too many time we are putting ourselves on sale. Although true value does come from within, our reminders come from without.
On this episode of Redefining Wealth, we are joined by an inspiration of mine, Egypt Sherrod.
Egypt knows more about the importance of self-worth, and how to find your true value, than anyone I know.
She’s an award-winning Realtor & CEO of the Atlanta based Egypt Sherrod Real Estate Group, she’s been chosen as one of Network Journal’s 40 Under 40, made recurring appearances as the home buyers/sellers “go-to girl” on NBC’s Today Show, CNBC, FOX, CNN, HLN as well as being featured on Fast & Company, Yahoo, Homes.com, Rolling Stone, Black Enterprise, and a host of other publications and digital platforms. Licensed in two states, Egypt is also the real estate columnist for Atlanta Magazine’s HOME.
Egypt drives her lovable but no-nonsense approach home, with her NAACP Image Award-nominated “Keep Calm…It’s Just Real Estate: Your No-Stress Guide To Buying A Home,” on Running Press/Perseus Books which became a bestseller in its genre.
A powerhouse speaker and moderator, Egypt hosted the stage at Oprah’s “The Life You Want Tour”, and countless business conferences. As a 20-year award-winning radio personality, Egypt has been syndicated in more than 60 cities throughout the USA.
Egypt is a graduate of Temple University in Philadelphia with a Bachelors degree in Broadcasting, Telecommunications & Mass Media. She holds the designation of Master Certified Negotiator, Accredited Buyer Representative, Certified Residential Specialist and Certified Distressed Property Expert.
Egypt is seamlessly using the power of television and the microphone to help others, all the while living her own life to the fullest.
Download this episode now and hear her insights on how you can find your true value.
“The great thing about waking up every morning is having another chance to get it right.” - Egypt Sherrod
The Cliff Notes:
Be in love with everything around you, don’t just tolerate it.
You don’t owe anyone an explanation about how you choose to live your life.
Sometimes you need to go to grow.
We are responsible for our own sanctity.
We don’t realize that we are living out lives on sale and putting ourselves on clearance.
What you wear shows what you believe you are worth.
Just because something held you back before, doesn’t mean it still has to have a hold on you today.
Loving people doesn’t mean you only love people who love you back.
Go room to room, and pack everything up, then only unpack what you need or love.
We do not need more than half of the stuff we surround ourselves with.
You need to realize that the real priority is.
Experiences over things, people over material.
“You can tell where people are in their lives by how their house looks on the inside.” - Egypt Sherrod
Thursday Jan 11, 2018
Paul Brunson: What Two Billionaires Taught Me About People
Thursday Jan 11, 2018
Thursday Jan 11, 2018
“Any time you help someone get closer to their goal, you’re adding value.” - Paul Brunson
Do you treat everyone the same, or do you pick and choose the people you want to be in contact with? Do you find yourself quickly judging people and expecting them to help you?
You’re doing yourself a huge disservice. You never know who is watching that has the power to bless you. Your people skills, in all areas of life, are what will make you or break you.
As a result, I’m going to give you 3 tips that will help you build your overall wealth.
Build a phenomenal relationship with yourself before you try to build one with others.
Treat everyone you meet with love, respect, and acknowledgment.
Don’t ask for things from others unless you’ve given at least 10x first.
If you follow these three simple rules you’ll open up possibilities you never thought were possible.
On this episode of Redefining Wealth, we continue the Results - Not Resolutions series to help us achieve our relationship goals this year. We are joined by the man who knows more about relationships and selfless giving than anyone: Paul C. Brunson.
Paul is an entrepreneur, author, and television host that has become recognized internationally as one of the most successful matchmakers and small business leaders.
He is the founder and chairman of the award-winning matchmaking firm, PCBA. His boutique company of 9 matchmakers, counselors, and coaches is considered one of the leading firms in the sector, receiving the iDate Best Matchmaker and Best Relationship Coaching of the Year awards in 2015.
He received an NAACP Image Award nomination for his first book entitled: It’s Complicated (But It Doesn’t Have to Be): A Modern-Day Guide to Finding and Keeping Love. Appearing as the co-host on Oprah Winfrey Network’s Lovetown, USA, Oprah Winfrey notes, “Paul is much more than a matchmaker!”
Debuting this Fall, Paul will host and produce a primetime docu-series on ABC. Currently, Paul hosts Our World by Black Enterprise, a weekly syndicated network and cable TV show where he interviews today’s top newsmakers and business leaders. Earlier in the year, it was announced Columbia Pictures secured the rights to Paul’s life story to create a film about him being a pioneering Matchmaker.
Paul’s insights and unique understanding of relationships and personal development have made him a sought-after expert on interpersonal relationships and entrepreneurship, having appeared in over 350 major media outlets around the world – including appearances on Good Morning America, The Today Show, Nightline, CNN, Entertainment Tonight, the Washington Post, Black Enterprise, Essence, Ebony, and more.
We are so blessed to have him join us today.
Download this episode to hear amazing insights on growing relationships in all areas of life to achieve the wealth you deserve.
“People skills are critical to living our optimal lives.” - Paul Brunson
The Cliff Notes:
There’s always someone watching you that has the power to bless you.
The same pillars that go into romantic relationships also go into personal and business relationships.
We all need to be better listeners.
There’s a difference between hearing and listening.
Listening allows you to capture the moment and acknowledges the other person.
Everyone wants to be acknowledged.
Don’t ask for things too early.
To build a rapport you need to give, give, and give.
Social media has allowed people to fake it without ever making it.
We all want autonomy, impact, and money.
Those with high standards and high expectations always have a higher quality of life.
If you want to create phenomenal relationships with other people you have to first create a phenomenal relationship with yourself.
Would you rather have 100,000 Twitter followers or just have Oprah follow you?
“Don’t just show up, show up at 100.” - Paul Brunson
Thursday Jan 04, 2018
Brandi Harvey: Your Roots Create Your Results
Thursday Jan 04, 2018
Thursday Jan 04, 2018
“Everybody has the giant inside of them.” - Brandi Harvey
Let me ask you something, and I want you to be honest. What’s the point of making a resolution if you aren’t going to keep it? Also, how do you expect to keep your resolution if you’re not fixing the root of the problem?
For example, the most common New Year’s resolution is to get in shape. You can go to the gym, and lose the weight but that alone isn’t going to keep the weight off.
Your fitness doesn’t start at the body. Like most things in life, it starts at the mind and soul.
You need to analyze what got you overweight, to begin with. Is it from emotional eating? Do you have bad habits, like rewarding yourself with a milkshake when you do something good?
On this episode of the Redefining wealth podcast, we are joined by my good friend, Brandi Harvey.
You probably recognize her as the daughter of popular TV show host, Steve Harvey, but much more than that Brandi is a wellness advocate, teacher and profound public speaker.
Recently she’s started her own company BEYOND HER, which is still in its infancy.
Download this episode today to hear her amazing insights on one of the most important pillars: Fit.
“Nothing is going to stop you but you.” - Brandi Harvey
The Cliff Notes:
If you want results, you have to do things you’ve never done before.
Don’t be the skinniest person in the room, be the healthiest.
Sometimes you just need a nudge or word to wake up your inner giant.
You only get one body to take care of.
Our bodies need to be loved, respected and cared for.
A part of our journey is respecting our temple.
Whatever we do in the dark, it shows up in the light.
You have to change all of your habits if you want to see results.
You can’t out train a bad diet.
What we put into our bodies has the ability to heal us, or to harm us.
Greatness never goes on sale, it’s always full price.
You have to consider what caused the weight to get there in the first place.
A quick fix never lasts, you have to find the root of the problem.
Everything is connected: Mind, Body, and Soul.
Make sure you have the mental capacity to handle the things you want.
Take the time to reflect on your feelings.
To get the things that you want, you have to do the things you’ve never done.
You have to be alone for the spirit to talk to you.
Every great person has had a mountaintop experience.
Many people use their faith as a cop out.
You can’t pray about it and then forget about it.
Don’t be afraid to surrender.
“You can’t get ready for your life. It’s happening right now.” - Brandi Harvey
Thursday Dec 28, 2017
10 Lessons from 10 Years of Marriage
Thursday Dec 28, 2017
Thursday Dec 28, 2017
“A good relationship should make you want more from yourself.”
Tomorrow, December 29th, 2017 is my 10 year wedding anniversary with my husband, Gerald. As a result I wanted to record a special podcast with him focusing on one of the most important pillars - relationships.
Making a marriage work is no easy task. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, and it certainly isn’t all sunshine and roses. Believe me. Like anything in life, relationships take work.
You and your spouse are two different people, and you will never find someone that is exactly like you. Plus, if you did, how boring would that be? There’d be no surprises, you’d both have the same flaws and end up hurting each other more than helping.
A good relationship should have balance. You should be supportive of each other, and most importantly your spouse should inspire you to be better in every aspect of life.
My husband and I have been through it all. We went from highs, to lows, and back up again. Even when we’ve been frustrated, and felt like throwing in the towel, we knew we had to honor each other. We had to put in the effort to overcome our obstacles, apologize even when we didn’t want to, and make the time to grow together.
On this episode of Redefining Wealth, the Washingtons team up to give you 10 lessons we’ve learned from ten years of marriage.
Download this episode today to learn what it really takes to have a lasting, happy relationship.
“Marriage takes work, it’s not all sunshine and roses.”
10 Lessons from 10 Years of Marriage
10. Friendship is the foundation
9. Laughter is mandatory
8. Embrace the journey
7. Date night is imperative
6. Date her consistently
5. Kids come second
4. Commitment is a daily choice
3. Remind her that she is beautiful
2. Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past
1. Accept your differences.
The Cliff Notes:
What good is it to chase money or career success when your relationship is in shambles?
You don’t always have to be serious.
There will always be lessons that come from the ups and the downs.
Make it a point to get out and just enjoy each other's company.
Don’t be afraid to switch date nights - and be intentional about it.
Parents: You’ll have a better chance at finding a babysitter on Tuesday or Wednesdays, not a Friday or Saturday.
Children are a byproduct of your relationship, so they should come second.
There’s a lot of time when you don’t feel like doing things, but to honor the union you need to do it anyway.
It’s easy to replay what someone did to hurt you, but you need to let it go.
There’s no point in wishing things happened differently - the past is what it is.
“Remind your partner not just of their outside beauty, but also of their inner beauty.”