Redefining Wealth with Patrice Washington

What You Need is Confidence

I love having a partnership with Capital One. They recently did a study that found that 49% of respondents reported being someone confident or not very confident at all in the car buying process. They also found that 94% of respondents didn't believe that the process was completely transparent. Dave Kang is Managing VP of Consumer Auto Finance at Capital One and he’s here to give us tips and help us become more confident in the car buying process.
Disclaimer:
Thank you to Capital One for sponsoring this episode! This is a paid endorsement. All opinions are my own and were not directed by Capital One. To learn more about the Capital One Auto Navigator tool, visit CapitalOne.com/cars.
Episode Summary:
In honor of Financial Literacy Month, we’re launching a new series called Confident Money.  I want to focus on helping you “make money moves” with more confidence than you ever have. I know it can be intimidating to handle money from purchasing a home to investing in stocks and everything in between, but this month, my goal is to help you build the confidence necessary to make wise financial decisions in every area. In this episode, I share my ideas on building money confidence, so you can build the wealth you deserve. Then I have a conversation with Dave Kang about the car buying process.  
CLIFF NOTES
You need to feel confident about money in order to build wealth.
Clarity is what breeds confidence. Not being clear about the steps that lead up to the process breeds financial confusion.
Ask why you are making this financial decision now and how it can impact the entire picture.
When your decisions lack confidence, you’ve probably made a purchase from desperation. We want to make choices rooted in faith - NOT fear.
Confidence increases when you have trusted resources. Always ask for help and get support in the areas that aren’t your strongest.
Here’s the big takeaway this week:
In order to make the best financial decisions you can and be someone committed to making WISE money moves, you have to think about how to boost your confidence BEFORE you get into the transaction.
We have to stop making emotional decisions and make the ones that make sense for the bigger picture.
Quotes from the show:
“To make great strides and build wealth, it really requires building confidence.” - Patrice Washington
“Ask why you are making this financial decision now in order to get clarity.” - Patrice Washington
“Look at how your financial decision is going to impact everything else in your life.” - Patrice Washington
“What is it going to take to make it to the end result without settling?” - Patrice Washington
“We want to make choices rooted in faith not fear.” - Patrice Washington
“Knowledge is one thing, but wisdom is knowing how to apply the knowledge that you've obtained.” - Patrice Washington
“Clarity will breed confidence.” - Patrice Washington
“We want to be confident proactive productive citizens and proactive and confident consumers.” - Patrice Washington
“A vision of Auto Navigator is to bring more transparency to the car shopping and car buying experience.” - Dave Kang
Ask yourself . . . “What decisions are being for me versus what decisions am I making for myself.” - Dave Kang
Links:
Capital One Auto Navigator
 
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REWIND: Faith Can Not Be Your Financial Crutch

As we kickoff financial literacy month, I'm doing a REWIND episode before we start the Confident Money Series, next week. I didn't record this week, because my heart is telling me that I can grieve and mourn even for someone I don't know personally. My husband and I were just at the store where Nipsey Hussle was shot. As someone who grew up in that area, it's just heartbreaking.
I will be sharing specific tips for the upcoming Confident Money Series. In this episode, I set the tone by going back to why faith cannot be your financial crutch. It will be a great foundation as we get into the Confident Money Series.
 
CLIFF NOTES
Many of us have been raised to believe that money is bad or being poor is more noble. This can create conflicting beliefs.
We can’t just be irresponsible with our financial lives, and then just pray for things to get better.
There is a personal responsibility that comes with personal finance. Some things you just need to do.
We can’t pray our way out of financial problems and predicaments. We should pray before we get into those predicaments.
You have to know your own numbers. We are all responsible for what goes in and what goes out.
You need to accept help when needed. Sometimes you need the help of someone else to get to what's next for you.
Nurture what you do know. Words are powerful. You should wake up knowing that you are ready to manage your money and manage it well.
 
Quotes from the show:
“Whether people have great jobs or sources of income or not, they still tend to use faith as a financial crutch.” - Patrice Washington
“Your faith should not be your excuse for not being responsible.” - Patrice Washington
“There are some things that you need to plan and commit to not just pray about.” - Patrice Washington
“You can't be irresponsible with your finances, and then just pray for an intervention.” - Patrice Washington
“We don't have time to be irresponsible with our finances. Faith without works is dead.” - Patrice Washington
“There is a PERSONAL responsibility that comes with personal finance.” - Patrice Washington
“People often use their faith as a long-term answer instead of stepping up, taking responsibility, and doing the work.” - Patrice Washington
“Faith is not your crutch for not doing well with your finances.” - Patrice Washington
“You have to know your own numbers.” - Patrice Washington
“We are all responsible for what goes in and what goes out.” - Patrice Washington
“It's our responsibility to give God something to bless.” - Patrice Washington
“Financial success on any level comes from you taking action and accepting help where needed.” - Patrice Washington
“You should wake up everyday with the feeling that you are ready, willing, and able to manage your money responsibly.” - Patrice Washington
“You are ready to manage your money and manage it well.” - Patrice Washington
“All of the things you supposedly don't know about money are just a story that you have told yourself.” - Patrice Washington
“Start to change the way you speak, and you will be surprised how you start to understand things with grace and ease.” - Patrice Washington
“What you nurture grows.” - Patrice Washington
“What we have with money is a relationship.” - Patrice Washington
 
Links:
Dr. Daniel Crosby: The Best Thing You Can Do is Nothing
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Doubt Doesn’t Mean Don’t Do It

Even powerful and successful women doubt themselves at times. Doubt has also become a common thread with women in my community. Sometimes, we think that people who are successful never have doubts or fears. The truth is everyone has doubts and fears, it’s just that the successful people choose to push through those doubts and move forward. In this episode, I will talk about doubt and give you three actionable ways to push through that doubt.
I also have a big announcement about the Purpose Chaser Community. You can sign up for free to connect with like minded people. Next month is financial literacy month where I’ll be doing a whole series about money management and tips.
CLIFF NOTES
People and women in general often think that people doing amazing things don’t have the same doubt and fears that they have.
Don’t let doubt creep in and distract you from making decisions and moving forward with your goals and progressing towards success.  
It’s up to us to decide that we are going to do whatever it takes to push through obstacles and our own fears.
Doubt is normal defeat is a choice. It’s normal to have doubt, but letting it stop you is a choice.
Let the benefit of the doubt apply to you. We give this benefit to others. It’s time to give it to ourselves.
Write out the worst case scenario and realize that’s not the worst thing that could happen.
Quotes from the show:
“Give yourself the benefit of the doubt and remove this need for perfection and decide if the worst-case is really the worst thing that could happen.” - Patrice Washington
“Sometimes we have the perception that women or people in general who are doing amazing things don't have the same fears and doubts that we do.” - Patrice Washington
“We get stuck by allowing doubt to take root and completely distract us.” - Patrice Washington
“Your doubt does not mean that you shouldn't do it. Doubt does not mean don't do anything.” - Patrice Washington
“Decide that you are going to do whatever it takes to push through even pushing through your own fear.” - Patrice Washington
“Doubt is normal, but allowing it to stop you in your tracks is a choice.” - Patrice Washington
“God doesn't require perfection from us and neither do most humans.” - Patrice Washington
“Don't measure your reality against a filtered fantasy like social media.” - Patrice Washington
“Why do we give so many other people the benefit of the doubt, but cut it off when it comes to us.” - Patrice Washington
“People want to support you, but you have to allow the benefit of the doubt for yourself in order for them to do that.” - Patrice Washington
“Progress beats perfection on any day of the week.” - Patrice Washington
“Doubt doesn't mean don't do it. Who is served by not doing it?” - Patrice Washington
“The best thing you can do for doubt is to challenge it and go get a win.” - Patrice Washington
Links:
Mattie James: The Responsibility of Influence
Sarita Maybin: Ask for What You Want
Rachel Luna: Built to Survive
People Want To Support You
I’m Not Above Backing Out
Give God Something to Bless
Greatness Requires You to Expect Resistance
Results VS Resolutions: Commitment Makes the Difference
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Rachel Luna: Built to Survive

Rachel Luna is a good friend of mine and an entrepreneur, master confidence coach, speaker, author, podcaster, and a woman who tells it like it is. She helps women and ultra secure men find clarity and confidence to have the life and business of their dreams. She has overcome many obstacles in her life to find her purpose in helping people increase their sales and revenue through increased confidence and living with purpose.
Episode Summary:
In this powerful episode, Rachel shares some of her story and how and why she became a coach. She talks about how external issues can be solved by fixing the internal issues. We talk about active journaling, listening to god, having boundaries, not being a victim, and the realities of motherhood. We change the narrative around shame, because no one can shame you. Rachel also gives some great examples of having and enforcing positive boundaries.
CLIFF NOTES
Rachel helps people become more confident in anything. Externally, people may think they need help with something, but internally it may be a confidence issue.
As she overcame her problems and found a coach to help her, Rachel’s natural talent for helping others became evident.
A coach provides guidance and asks powerful questions. A consultant or mentor gives advice.
Actively wait on the lord to help you by seeking answers and praying and journaling. Take action and listen to God.
Sometimes it’s literally doing the work to get past the tests that we are given. Doing work you love does not have to be laborious.
Don’t see yourself as a victim. Take back your power and don’t squander your opportunity.
Quotes from the show:
People will admit they have a problem with sales before they admit they have a problem with confidence. - Rachel Luna
I have to get you in and then show you what you need. - Rachel Luna
You might be a high-functioning mess. - Rachel Luna
When you overcome your pain, people will want to know how you did it. - Rachel Luna
Everything that has happened in my life happened for me so I could help someone else. - Rachel Luna
Coach - provides guidance and ask the powerful questions - Rachel Luna
Consultant and Mentor - gives advice - Rachel Luna
If life was easy there’d be no reason to go deeper. - Rachel Luna
Actively waiting means you wait on the Lord and still do something. - Rachel Luna
Our faith will be tested from time to time. - Rachel Luna
The more you know God and his word, the more you hear his voice. - Rachel Luna
We won’t do the work, but we’ll want the reward on the other side of the test. - Rachel Luna
People get confused with what work means. Work doesn’t have to be hard and laborious. - Rachel Luna
Sometimes you have to give people no option but to sink or swim. - Rachel Luna
Before you cut someone off, offend them to their breakthrough. - Rachel Luna
As a coach I don’t get to make an excuse to allow my clients to make an excuse. - Rachel Luna
Do you want a breakthrough that will remain broken? - Rachel Luna
We have to get clear about our identity and who we are. - Rachel Luna
We are all built to survive. - Rachel Luna
Nobody can shame you. We allow people’s thoughts, reactions and words to . . . - Rachel Luna
Rachel’s Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
Define Success:
Waking up and being alive is a victory unto itself. It means that God has said I am not done with you yet, and you are still of service. You can still make an impact today. Success is yours.
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
People, relationships, and service.
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
Money, A Love Story
Fill-in the Blanks… “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Rachel Luna and the truth about wealth is it's limitless and available to me at any moment that I choose.”  
Links:
Mattie James: The Responsibility of Influence
Sarita Maybin: Ask for What You Want
Confidence Activated
Rachel Luna
Rachel Luna on Facebook
Rachel Luna on Instagram
@RachelLunaTV on Twitter
REAL TALK with Rachel Luna
Books by Rachel Luna
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Sarita Maybin: Ask for What You Want

About our Guest
Sarita Maybin is an international speaker and communications expert. She has worked with clients like Hewlett Packard, Kaiser Permanente, Los Angeles County, Department of Navy and the Las Vegas Convention Center and has spoken all over the world. In 2012 she was voted Top 5 Communication Speaker and has had the privilege of speaking on the TEDx stage. She’s also the author of If You Can’t Say Something Nice, What DO You Say? and an expert in confronting tough communication situations in a positive and fun way.
Episode Summary:
Today, we continue the Powerful Women Series in honor of Women's History Month. Our focus today is on the people pillar and how we communicate. We tackle the complex topic of speaking up when it  might not be comfortable and talk about the importance of finding a middle ground to say what needs to be said before things blow up. We discuss how to ask for what we want using the right language. This includes giving the other party a vote by using collaborative phrases and the power of positive communication phrases. This episode is full of practical tactics for both personal and professional communication.
CLIFF NOTES
It’s important to speak up and say what needs to be said.
Use phrases like, “I would appreciate” to make requests not demands.
We need to just ask for what we want. Use a phrase like, “would you be willing to?” Use collaborative phrases at home.
When giving feedback focus on the positive rather than the negative and use positive communication phrases like, “help me understand.”
3 Clues that you should pick up the phone instead of email or text. Sensitive subject, conflict, or when there’s a back and forth.
Instead of a spellcheck do a “please and thank you check.”
The 3Ps by Dr. Martin Sullivan: Don't take things PERSONALLY. It's not PERMANENT. Don't let it ruin the big PICTURE.
We can use “if”, "as soon as" and "when" to set boundaries.
Quotes from the show:
If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all doesn't work anymore. Sometimes you have to say what you need to say. - Sarita Maybin
We can all benefit from more truth tellers in the workplace. - Sarita Maybin
If we don't tell the truth, how do people improve?  - Sarita Maybin
You can tell people the truth and leave them with their dignity intact. - Patrice Washington
Say what you mean, mean what you say and don't say it mean. - Sarita Maybin
We can make subtle changes in how we talk to each other while remaining assertive. - Sarita Maybin
Instead of a demand, its okay to make a request. - Sarita Maybin
We need to just ask for what we want. - Sarita Maybin
Sometimes our biggest challenges are the communication in our own home. - Sarita Maybin
Give feedback with a positive rather than a negative.  - Sarita Maybin
We do a spell-check on email, but what we should do is a "please and thank you" check. - Sarita Maybin
Don't take things PERSONALLY. It's not PERMANENT. Don't let it ruin the big PICTURE. - Dr. Martin Sullivan
Don't take other people's problems on and allow it to ruin your day by taking it personally. - Sarita Maybin
When people say something negative it says more about who they are than who you are. - Sarita Maybin
Just because you're in a drama, you don't have to be dramatic. - Tim Storey
Participating in other people's drama is a choice. - Sarita Maybin
Are you the person who brightens the room when you walk in OR when you leave? - Sarita Maybin
Sarita's Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
Define Success:
Enjoying what you do and making a difference.
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
Feeling that you have enough for yourself and enough to share with others.
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
Lean In
Fill-in the Blanks… “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Sarita and the truth about wealth is it's possible.”  
Links:
Sarita Maybin
Get the 50 Phrases for Communication Text: Sarita Talk to 22828
@SaritaMaybin on Twitter
Sarita Maybin on Facebook
Sarita Maybin on LinkedIn
If You Can't Say Something Nice, What Do You Say?: Practical Solutions for Working Together Better
Mattie James: The Responsibility of Influence
Black Women’s Network
Sarita Maybin, M.A. -TEDx Talk
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Mattie James: The Responsibility of Influence

About our Guest:
Mattie James began blogging about her favorite products and outfits in 2008. Five years later in 2010, blogging became her full-time job. In 2017, she began her Mattie James blog where she talks about beauty, life, motherhood, inspiration and more. She also creates courses and has worked with well known brands like TJ Maxx, State Farm, Olay, and many more. She is also the host of The Mattie James Show and the Mattie & Chris podcast.
Episode Summary:
March is Women's History Month or what I call the powerful woman month. This month I am highlighting some dynamic women that I really admire. Mattie James is a brand influencer and entrepreneur who I admire and am thrilled to have on the show. We have been supporting each other over social media and it's great to talk with her. One of the things we talk about is giving ourselves permission which was also the theme of The Bliss Project that I just attended over this past weekend.
CLIFF NOTES
Mattie is amazing at working with brands, but she also lives her life’s purpose with her work.  
She evolved from a fashion blogger to a mom who began sharing more aspects of her life. People cared more about her story, than just about what she was wearing.
For Mattie, everything is content as she authentically shares her life.
People want to make their lives better. If you have figured out a way to make your life better, people want to apply that to their lives.
To be successful, we have got to prioritize mindset. Our success mirrors our personal development.
Assuming that something good is out of reach is a reflection of our mindset.
Get to the reason why you want to be successful and ask who you want to help and who you want to make better.
Quotes from the show:
“When you first start blogging, you're going to be really bad at it just keep pushing through.” - Mattie James
“It was important for me to show my entire life to say that you can do this too.” - Mattie James
“People care more about story than they do about niche.” - Mattie James
“I tried to be as organic and authentic as possible.” - Mattie James
“I have the mindset that every single thing is content.” - Mattie James
“People want to make their lives better. If you have figured out a way to make your life better, people want to apply that to their lives.” - Mattie James
“Anytime I can sow a seed of light or betterment in somebody's life, because I shared a piece of mine, without compromising or diluting my quality of life, I'm happy to do it.” - Mattie James
“Any success that we have mirrors our personal development.” - Mattie James
“Ask questions from the right perspective in the right position.” - Mattie James
“We automatically assume that if something is good it's out of reach for us, not because we lack resources but because we lack mindset.” - Mattie James
“Until you get the mindset right no matter what kind of seed you put in there, you will still come up short.” - Mattie James
“When you put out content that is really you, your following will inevitably grow.” - Mattie James
“If you are with somebody who is willing to do the work, you will be good.” - Mattie James
“I get the feeling that Mattie is truly living her life's purpose.” - Patrice Washington
“If you don't evolve as these platforms evolve, you are going to have a problem.” - Patrice Washington  
“When you don't understand what your purpose is it's truly a struggle to prioritize your personal finances.” - Patrice Washington
“I'd rather have a real connection with my followers than to have millions of followers where no one is moved.” - Patrice Washington
“It's been so refreshing to see my husband do the work because he wants to be better.” - Patrice Washington
Mattie’s Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
Define Success:
Purpose realized and purpose actualized. Consistently working on making my purpose a reality. Anytime I fulfill my purpose, I am honoring anything and everything that is important to my life. My purpose is spreading the good news.
Me sharing with you how I restored my marriage is spreading the good news. Me sharing with you how I made six figures working with brands being myself is spreading the good news.
Anytime, I'm sharing the good news it's my success, because that's me realizing and actualizing my purpose.
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
Fulfillment, overflow, and purposeful.
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
You Are a Badass at Making Money
Fill-in the Blanks… “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Mattie James and the truth about wealth is it has nothing to do with profit and everything to do with purpose.”  
Links:
The Bliss Project
Mattie James
The Mattie James Show
Mattie & Chris
Mattie James on Instagram
Mattie James on YouTube
@themattiejames on Twitter
Mattie James on Facebook
 
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Garrain Jones: Your Life Has to Match

About our Guest:
Garrain Jones has overcome crazy obstacles. In spite of everything, he learned a new approach that helped him build an amazing life full of abundance. The knowledge that he has gained his sent him down the pathway of becoming a transformation coach. This work has given him the ability to reach into a person's core and find their greatness.
He helps empower them to discover it and produce amazing results in their own lives.  He is a serial entrepreneur who motivates and inspires thousands of people across the globe and his mantra shares the title of his forthcoming book, Change Your Mindset Change Your Life.
Episode Summary:
Garrain went through some rough times in his life and it wasn’t until he reached rock bottom and decided to change everything that he was able to have a complete transformation. He shares how the catalyst of this event was an encounter with a homeless man who shared life changing wisdom with him that he has never forgotten. Garrain shares how we all have the ability to change our lives and the lives of others if we lead by example with our words actually matching our results.
CLIFF NOTES
Garrain came from a background of scarcity until he decided to focus on what he actually wanted.
Seven years ago, a homeless man spoke these life-changing words to Garrain. Change Your Mindset Change Your Life.
Garrain began surrendering and doing the opposite of everything he was accustomed to. He noticed that this created different results.  
He discovered that what he was actually doing was unlearning the negative thoughts that he grew up with.
By taking care of your health, you are also taking care of other areas in your life. Everything we do affects everything else.
There are different ways to look at situations. We get a choice of what we do and don’t have to keep repeating the same mistakes.
Take responsibility and ownership of your own life.
Your family can actually be the test or challenge that you need to get through before you progress to the next level.
Quotes from the show:
“You can't change what you're not aware of.” - Garrain Jones
“When you don't know how you got to a certain place, there's no way to free yourself.” - Garrain Jones
“Whatever you focus on is what keeps showing up in your life.” - Garrain Jones
“Change your mindset, change your life.” - Garrain Jones
“When I allowed myself to surrender and look at life a different way, different results began to happen.” - Garrain Jones
“I was being trained to unlearn the domestication of my childhood.” - Garrain Jones
“You can be doomed to have a grave before you even physically die.” - Garrain Jones
“You don't know how bad you feel until you start feeling better than you've ever felt.” - Garrain Jones
“There's no way you can be happy if your heart isn't healthy.” - Garrain Jones
“You don't have to force people. They will see themselves in your freedom.” - Garrain Jones
“You can't open people up to this level of possibility and then leave them hanging.” - Patrice Washington
“If you have a vision for your life, it's your number one responsibility to protect the vessel.” - Patrice Washington
“Doing something consistently and getting the result is much better than nagging people.” - Patrice Washington
Garrain’s Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
Define Success:
Peace of mind.
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
Doing what I love. Inner child love.
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
The Power of Positive Thinking
Fill-in the Blanks… “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Garrain Jones and the truth about wealth is the ultimate, genuine, deepest reach of my heart happiness.”  
Links:
Garrain Jones
The Garrain Jones Flow Facebook Community
Garrain Jones on Instagram
@Garrainjones on Twitter
Greatness Requires You to Expect Resistance
Billionaire P.A.
Billionaire P.A.: Your Mind is Wealthy
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Greatness Requires You to Expect Resistance

Episode Summary:
I realized as I was finishing up the Results Not Resolutions series, that I didn't mention the best part to all of this. When you start shifting your focus to get to your next level of greatness, you can start to experience things that make you feel like all is breaking loose. It doesn't matter how pumped you are about setting goals and getting results, you still have to be prepared for the fact that life is still going to happen.
Resistance will still surface in spite of your best efforts. We will all find ourselves coming to a fork in the road about whether we keep going or whether we give up. Butting up against resistance is why many of us fall away from our goals year after year. Today, I'm going to talk about resistance and how to work through it.
CLIFF NOTES
Resistance is a force that acts to stop the progress of something or make it slower.
All materials naturally contain resistance to the flow of electric current. We are all experiencing some level of resistance at any given moment.
Expect resistance, because no one is immune to it. Even people who look like they are doing great could be going through difficult times.
When we make plans and goals, we expect the vision we have for them.
Set yourself up to have a contingency plan to navigate through the seasons of resistance.
We have the power to reframe this resistance to be for us not against us.
Resistance is here to reveal opportunities for growth.
Quotes from the show:
"When you start shifting your focus to get to your next level of greatness, you can start to experience things that make you feel like all is breaking loose.” - Patrice Washington
"Set yourself up to become a person that understands that resistance is inevitable and have a contingency plan in place for how you navigate and maneuver through seasons of resistance.” - Patrice Washington
"I'm reaching for my next level of greatness, so I know that there's going to be some level of resistance on the journey.” - Patrice Washington
"For every measure of resistance you face, release a volt that can help you push through.” - Patrice Washington
"You have to decide that being stuck and letting the resistance overwhelm you is not an option.” - Patrice Washington
"Resistance is here to reveal opportunities for growth.” - Patrice Washington
"Resistance is here in order to help us create a plan or a path to overcome something similar next time.” - Patrice Washington
"Expect resistance. No one is immune to resistance.” - Patrice Washington  
"We have the power to reframe this resistance to be for us not against us.” - Patrice Washington
“You get to reframe your resistance and make it about how you release your voltage how you release your power.” - Patrice Washington
“You do not embrace resilience without having been through resistance. The definition of resilience is the capacity to recover quickly from difficulties.” - Patrice Washington
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Anna Lozano and Lindy Sood: Love Powered: Love Yourself First

About our Guests:
Anna Lozano and Lindy Sood are two entrepreneurs who created a business together based on the power of affirmations. They discovered that tapping into their own gifts has been a powerful transformation too. They wanted to share this with their children and Love Powered Co was created. It is their goal to empower the next generations of mindful leaders with conscious products curated for the modern family.
Episode Summary:
Anna and Lindy create affirmation cards with three affirmations and a power phrase. The original intent was enabling their kids to understand how the words connect. They found this method is helpful for everyone. They use words like “I am” to help tap into the power within us. This is a powerful episode that highlights how we can all use reminders to tap into our own greatness and super powers.
CLIFF NOTES
Our subconscious uses affirmations to tell ourselves to be better or believe in a powerful statement.
Understanding how the words in our affirmations connect is helpful to everybody.
Having powerful positive reminders is necessary to prevent us from self-sabotaging.
Curiosity is a power not a negative. There is nothing wrong with being inquisitive.
The affirmation cards for kids were designed to get them away from a screen and help them connect on a deeper level.
Everyone is encouraged to connect with their higher selves.
The way we speak about ourselves creates our reality. I am is the most powerful way to begin a phrase.
Quotes from the show:
“This company has taken flight because it was created with so much passion and intention behind it.” - Anna Lozano
"The more that we focus on feeling good the easier life will be." - Anna Lozano
“Benefits we were getting from our affirmation practices that we were doing in our own homes were really transformative for our lives.” - Lindy Sood
“The more we work on ourselves the better it is for our kids, because we are leading by example.” - Lindy Sood
“We are getting back at the core roots of what it means to be human and connecting to the people around you, the people you love, and connecting to your higher self.” - Anna & Lindy
“What you put after the words ‘I am’ shapes your reality.” - Anna & Lindy
“We have the power to shift our beliefs.” - Patrice Washington
“There is nothing wrong with getting the support you need and asking the questions that you want to know.” - Patrice Washington
“We all self-sabotage at some time. Having these reminders around is so necessary.” - Patrice Washington
“I didn't grow up hearing the right messages, but I knew I had to participate in my own rescue.” - Patrice Washington
“We are great. We are enough. We are more than whole.” - Patrice Washington
"In this journey called life as we're striving to be better at whatever we do, we sometimes forget to tell ourselves the right things.” - Patrice Washington  
Lindy & Anna’s Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
Define Success:
Happiness.  Does it bring me joy?
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
Passion, purpose and pride.
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
Creating Money
Fill-in the Blanks… “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Lindy and the truth about wealth is it is all our own making.”  
“My name is Anna and the truth about wealth is that it is all around us and it's only a matter of tapping into it.”
Links:
Love Powered Co.
Love Powered Co. on Facebook
Love Powered Co. on Instagram
@lovepoweredco on Twitter
Marie Kondo
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REWIND: Dr. Brad Klontz: The Truth About Savings

About our Guest:
Dr. Brad Klontz is a financial psychologist who focuses on raising awareness around issues relating to financial health and financial psychology. He is the founder of the Financial Psychology Institute, an Associate Professor at Creighton University, and Managing Principal of Your Mental Wealth Advisors. He was awarded the Innovative Practice Presidential Citation, is the author of numerous books and publications, and is a personal mentor of mine.  
Episode Summary:
Today's episode is a rewind episode with Dr. Brad Klontz. I chose this episode because it has very special significance for me. Dr. Brad Klontz is a financial psychologist, and he was one of the first guests on my show. This year we have talked a lot about getting results not just setting resolutions. One of the results I wanted for 2018 was to become a certified Behavioral Finance Specialist. Thanks to the influence of Dr. Brad Klontz, I will have my certification in financial psychology within the next month which has sparked another result I have my sights on for 2019; pursuing an MBA with a concentration in behavioral finance and financial psychology.
CLIFF NOTES
Financial psychology is the study of our upbringing, experiences, and our beliefs and behaviors around money.
The goal is improving financial health by improving financial psychology.
Building wealth is first and foremost about your mindset.
Our beliefs around money are real clear indicators of our success or failure.
People who accept responsibility and believe they have the power to change their financial beliefs will have success.
You have to take responsibility if there are gaps in your wealth mindset and seek out mentors that can help you out.
The Banking Reimagined Savings Study proved that associating nostalgic items with savings improved rates by 67%
Quotes from the show:
“The ultimate goal of financial psychology is to help us improve our financial health by improving our psychology.” - Dr. Brad Klontz
“Believe that you have the power to change your financial beliefs.” - Dr. Brad Klontz
“If we can identify our beliefs around money and where they came from, we will then have the power to change.” - Dr. Brad Klontz
“Only you can take responsibility if there are gaps in your wealth mindset.” - Dr. Brad Klontz
“It’s not your logical brain that drives financial behaviors, it's your emotional brain.” - Dr. Brad Klontz
“Our beliefs around money are real clear indicators of our success or failure.” - Dr. Brad Klontz
“Building wealth is about mindset and integrating the other pieces of our lives.” - Patrice Washington
“Start with the why.” - Patrice Washington
“When we talk about money in an engaging way, it makes all the difference.” - Patrice Washington
Brad’s Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
Define Success:
I look at success as a side effect of what happens naturally when you have an optimal mindset.
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
Love, laughter, and longevity.
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
The Richest Man in Babylon
Fill-in the Blanks… “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Dr. Brad Klontz and the truth about wealth is for me it’s an evolving definition.”  
Links:
Dr. Brad Klontz: The Truth About Savings
Your Mental Wealth
OCCAM Your Mental Wealth Advisor
Dr. Brad Klontz on YouTube
@DrBradKlontz on Twitter
Books by Dr. Brad Klontz
Financial Psychology Institute
Dr. Thema: Stop Suffering in Silence
Nehemiah Davis: Create Your Circle of Greatness
Crystal Escobar: No More Shoulds
Monique Coleman: Peel Back the Layers
Glen Henry: 5 Steps to Releasing Your Genius
Getting Sentimental Could Increase Your Savings
Real Money Answers for Every Woman: How to Win the Money Game With or Without a Man
 
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