Redefining Wealth with Patrice Washington

Are you willing to pay for your peace?
 
So many of us have spent our entire lives living in a scarcity mindset. We were programmed to live on less, sacrifice our time in exchange for money, and in order to save money, we refuse to invest in the people or services that could ultimately bring us peace. Until we break free from this mindset, we will never experience true abundance. 
 
The truth is, we have more than enough ability, capacity and brilliance to recreate any money spent on things that save us time. At some point we have to make a discussion that the investment is worth it, that we’re worth the investment and that peace, purpose, and our ability to rest is a priority.
 
Your purpose is worth no longer settling for distractions. What peace are you willing to invest in to scale your joy, free up your time, and in the process be a blessing to others. 
 
Key discussion points from this episode include:
The Purpose Of Paying For Peace - 5:36
Why Not Paying For Peace Is A Distraction to Purpose - 7:30
Questions To Considered To Pay For Peace - 15:02
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Pay For Peace Takeaways
 
“I’m willing to pay for my peace.” - Patrice Washington
“What’s the purpose of making more, if all we do is add more struggle and strife to our lives?” - Patrice Washington  
“You can’t afford not to pay for peace.” - Patrice Washington
 “When I don’t pay for peace, it becomes such a distraction to purpose.” - Patrice Washington 
 “What would have been expensive is me not pursuing what I was called to do. ” - Patrice Washington 
“Stop judging people that prioritize and pay for their peace.” - Patrice Washington
“It’s not fair to judge other people’s purchases by your paycheck.” - Patrice Washington
“When I pay for my peace, I’m also keeping other people and their families employed.” - Patrice Washington 
“Everything that is permissible is not beneficial. Just because you can doesn’t mean you should.” - Patrice Washington
“Investing in therapy is paying for peace.” - Patrice Washington  
“I never said I don’t have nice things, nice things don’t have me.” - Patrice Washington
“Some people are just programmed for less.” - Patrice Washington
“Your purpose is worth no longer settling for distractions.” - Patrice Washington 
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Today marks the last episode of our summer REMIND Series, a special series dedicated to recent podcast interviews that I’ve done that I believe will remind you of who I am through a different lens, perspective, conversation and voice.
 
This episode is very special, and the perfect way to close the series, because it features Get A Helmet, a podcast hosted by Storyteller, Spiritual Coach and Podcast Host, Caroline Aylward. 
 
Get a Helmet focuses on breaking free from anxiety and low self worth, plugging into your power and intuition, and shining with authenticity. The show aims to illuminae the fullness of the human expression and dig deep into your mental health, body love, self worth, spirituality and everything in between. Life is (can be) tough. What's your helmet?
 
Key discussion points from this episode include:
Patrice’s Money Story - 3:09
Don’t Ignore The Signs - 14:49
Walking In Divine Alignment - 21:55
Reasons We Struggle With Money - 27:00
Imposter Syndrome & Worthiness - 35:00
Freedom & Money - 41:20
Get A Helmet - 46:28
 
This episode is brought to you by my new book, Redefine Wealth For Yourself: How To Stop Chasing Money and Finally Live Your Life’s Purpose. 
 
Through stories, principles, and practical exercises based on the Six Pillars of Wealth, this book serves as a guide to take you step by step through the process of creating a life of peace, purpose, and prosperity. If you’re tired of chasing money and ready to pursue your purpose, this holistic guide to wealth is for you. Purchase your copy today at RedefineWealthForYourself.com
 
Unlocking Financial Abundance Takeaways
“What good is money in the hands of a fool if they have no desire to seek wisdom.” - Patrice Washington
“If I can impact one person each day, then I did what I came to do.” - Patrice Washington
“I don’t know what I don’t know.” - Patrice Washington
“It’s not perfection, it’s obedience.” - Patrice Washington
“An audience of one will always be an audience for me.” - Patrice Washington  
“Stay committed to the vision, not attached to how you get there.” - Patrice Washington . 
“If you’re struggling with making money in your business, then the problem is probably not the business.” - Patrice Washington
 “There's no way that I could walk into the wealth that was destined for me, had I not done my part to heal my childhood trauma.” - Patrice Washington
 “Your business is only going to grow to the extent that you’re willing to invest in your healing.” - Patrice Washington 
“Our responsibility is to be in obedience, do our best and know that an audience of one is still an audience.” - Patrice Washington 
“It’s not that you don’t know what you should do, your mind is too cluttered to receive it.” - Patrice Washington 
“Money is a way to be able to do more good in the world.” - Patrice Washington
“Those that can pay, pay, so that I can have the time to invest in those who can’t.” - Patrice Washington  
“My helmet is my prayer room.” - Patrice Washington 
 
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Welcome back to another episode of The Redefining Wealth Podcast, where we are currently in our REMIND series, a special series that highlights podcast interviews done this year that I believe will give you a well rounded perspective of who I am.
 
Today’s stop in our REMIND series features Don’t Keep Your Day Job, a podcast hosted by Renowned Author, Entrepreneur, and Spiritual and Marketing Strategist, Cathy Heller. 
This particular episode was a live bonus training for Cathy’s community that was recorded live and repurposed for her podcast. What I love most about live recordings are the raw, transparent, and unscripted conversations as well as the genuine gems that are dropped in each interview. 
 
This episode is definitely one for the books, as I found myself sharing examples and stories that I’ve never used before, which I believe can only happen when there’s at least one person in the audience who needs to hear it. I hope this message resonates with you, opens your mind to endless possibilities and pushes you one step closer to chasing your purpose. 
 
Key discussion points from this episode include:
The Evolution Of Patrice Washington - 6:57
Chase Purpose, Not Money - 19:31
Embrace Your Gifts - 31:28
It’s Not About You - 38:40
You Get What You Believe - 42:03
Claim Your Truth - 45:02
Set Strong Boundaries - 51:19
Real Love Vs. Tough Love - 57:20
 
This episode is brought to you by my new book, Redefine Wealth For Yourself: How To Stop Chasing Money and Finally Live Your Life’s Purpose. 
 
Through stories, principles, and practical exercises based on the Six Pillars of Wealth, this book serves as a guide to take you step by step through the process of creating a life of peace, purpose, and prosperity. If you’re tired of chasing money and ready to pursue your purpose, this holistic guide to wealth is for you. Purchase your copy today at RedefineWealthForYourself.com
 
Don't Keep Your Day Job w/ Cathy Heller Takeaways
“Surrendering is giving up what we believe we have control over.” - Patrice Washington
“Knowledge is gathering information, wisdom is knowing how and when to apply it.” - Patrice Washington
“This journey is not just about chasing money, it’s about seeking wisdom.” - Patrice Washington
“When I learn something, I feel a heavy responsibility to share it.” - Patrice Washington
“My sole purpose everyday is to give God something to bless.” - Patrice Washington 
“If you don’t believe that you are worthy, you’re not going to do what you already know to do.” - Patrice Washington
“Your business is only going to grow to the extent that you’re willing to heal.” - Patrice Washington
“The number one reason people mismanage their finances is because they lack fulfillment.” - Patrice Washington 
“You do yourself and the marketplace a disservice when you don’t honor your gifts.” - Patrice Washington 
“I don’t believe that people are trying to find their purpose, I believe they refuse to embrace it.” - Patrice Washington 
“Many of us have the right gift, but we're using it in the wrong place.” - Patrice Washington 
“The humblest thing you can do is serve and receive.” - Cathy Heller
“There’s no transformation without transaction.” - Patrice Washington
“There’s always someone watching you who has the power to bless you, but who are they watching you be?” - Patrice Washington
“We don’t get what we want, we get what we believe.” - Patrice Washington 
“Your attitude towards a process will determine your success in the process.” - Patrice Washington 
“Wanting to be all things to all people means you’re probably lying to someone at some point.” - Cathay Heller
“One of the best things that we can do to help people in our lives, is to stop helping them.” - Patrice Washington
“Every season comes to an end if we allow ourselves to let go.” - Patrice Washington
“We don’t get what we say we want, we get what we expect.” - Cathy Heller
“What we verbalize, we magnify and magnetize.” - Patrice Washington
“Real love, for yourself, is doing what you’re authentically called to do.” - Patrice Washington
“An audience of one is still an audience.” - Patrice Washington
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While we would typically kick off the month of July with our REWIND series, bringing back old podcast episodes that resonate with our current world, this month we decided to switch things up and introduce you to a new series that I like to call: REMIND.
 
This series will highlight a few podcast interviews that I have done this year that I believe will give you a well rounded perspective of who I am. Instead of interviewing others, this series shares what it’s like to interview me and features podcasters who have made an impact in my life through their show.  
 
Our first stop in the REMIND Series is my interview with Hacker Valley Studio, We Are Here. 
 
A technology podcast founded by Ron Eddings and Chris Cochran, Hacker Valley Studio is an audio journey and series exploring black excellence in cybersecurity. As proud nominees of the Webby Award and the Webby People's Voice award, Hacker Valley is dedicated to highlighting inspirational stories that elevate communities while exploring the human element of cybersecurity programs and technology.
 
Key discussion points from this episode include:
Birthing Purpose In Uncertainty - 6:37
Share What You Know With Others - 11:08
Accept And Embrace Your Gifts - 14:46
It’s Not About You - 20:03
Chase Purpose, Not Money - 25:45
Seek Wisdom & Implement - 31:40
 
This episode is brought to you by my new book, Redefine Wealth For Yourself: How To Stop Chasing Money and Finally Live Your Life’s Purpose. 
 
Through stories, principles, and practical exercises based on the Six Pillars of Wealth, this book serves as a guide to take you step by step through the process of creating a life of peace, purpose, and prosperity. If you’re tired of chasing money and ready to pursue your purpose, this holistic guide to wealth is for you. Purchase your copy today at RedefineWealthForYourself.com
 
We Are Here w/ Hacker Valley Studio Takeaways
 
“This journey is not about chasing money, it’s about seeking wisdom.” - Patrice Washington
“Smart people have challenges with finances too.” - Patrice Washington
“Whenever I learn something, I have a responsibility to share it.” - Patrice Washington
“An audience of one is still an audience.” - Patrice Washington
“Embrace and allow yourself to evolve in your gift.” - Patrice Washington
“Every level of entrepreneurship reveals a new limiting belief.” - Patrice Washington
“Sometimes it’s enough for me to know that it’s not about me.” - Patrice Washington
“The progress of the people has always been the validation and the confirmation to keep going.” - Patrice Washington 
“We live in a society that glorifies burnout.” - Patrice Washington
“When I take better care of me, I show up better and perform better.” - Patrice Washington
“In some of the best lessons, you don’t come out on top.” - Patrice Washington
“Be committed to the vision, but don’t be attached to how you get there.” - Patrice Washington
 
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Over the last few weeks, we’ve focused on the power of letting go! During this series alone, we’ve learned about the magic of surrender, how to let go of guilt, how to gain freedom and to close out our Let It Go Series we are finding peace by setting boundaries. 
 
Letting go can be an active process that often requires some discomfort. It places us in a position to remove relationships that no longer serve us and it forces us to set and enforce boundaries that may change how we communicate with others. Today’s guest lives by the philosophy that a lack of boundaries and assertiveness underlie most relationship issues and she is here to help us set boundaries by letting go of the toxic habits that keep us from finding peace. 
 
Nedra Glover Tawwab is a licensed therapist and sought-after relationship expert. She has practiced relationship therapy for 12 years and is the founder and owner of the group therapy practice, Kaleidoscope Counseling. Nedra is also the New York Times Best Selling Author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself, and today, she is teaching us how to implement boundaries that create healthy relationships with both ourselves and others.
 
Key discussion points from this episode include:
How To Set Boundaries - 5:40
Set Boundaries With Family - 8:00
Dealing With The Discomfort - 12:47
The 2 Parts To Setting Boundaries - 15:10
How To Find Peace - 24:03
Boundaries Change - 32:09
Mom Guilt & Finding Support - 40:18
Boundaries Are The Cure - 46:59
 
This episode is brought to you by my new book, Redefine Wealth For Yourself: How To Stop Chasing Money and Finally Live Your Life’s Purpose. 
 
Through stories, principles, and practical exercises based on the Six Pillars of Wealth, this book serves as a guide to take you step by step through the process of creating a life of peace, purpose, and prosperity. If you’re tired of chasing money and ready to pursue your purpose, this holistic guide to wealth is for you. Purchase your copy today at RedefineWealthForYourself.com
Set Boundaries, Find Peace Takeaways
 
“When we think about the stress of working, it is so important that we think about boundaries.” - Nedra Glover Tawwab
“If you want to feel guilty, set a limit with your family.” - Nedra Glover Tawwab
 “People don’t like boundaries.” - Nedra Glover Tawwab
“The boundary is to keep us safe and comfortable, and sometimes people may not like that, depending on the person.”- Nedra Glover Tawwab
“Forgiving people doesn’t change their behavior, that’s a personal process.” - Nedra Glover Tawwab
“Saying yes to everything does not make you a kind person.”  - Nedra Glover Tawwab
“I feel proud that I am raising someone who has the awareness to be able to communicate her own boundaries with me as a parent.” - Patrice Washington
“I did not learn the art of apologizing until I became a parent.” - Nedra Glover Tawwab
“We have to learn how to not personalize everything requested of us.” - Nedra Glover Tawwab 
“Everything that you think is urgent and important is not a crisis.” - Nedra Glover Tawwab
“If you don’t want to constantly be connected, you have a right not to.” - Nedra Glover Tawwab
“Boundaries change.” - Nedra Glover Tawwab
“Even though they can do it on their own, it doesn't mean they should do it on their own.” - Nedra Glover Tawwab  
“It is an interesting job to raise another person while we’re still raising ourselves.” - Nedra Glover Tawwab 
“Let go of the ‘shoulds’.” - Patrice Washington
“If they can clean up at school, they can clean up at home.” - Nedra Glover Tawwab
“Boundaries are the cure to most relationship problems.” - Nedra Glover Tawwab
 
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
 
And with that, let’s dig into Nedra’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
 
Define Success:
“Success, for me, has been rest.”
 
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
“Living Authentically”
 
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz
 
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Nedra and the truth about wealth is... you define it. Redefine Wealth.” 
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As we continue our Let It Go Series, one thing I’ve learned about letting go is that there is freedom, beauty, impact and opportunity on the other side of letting go of shame, guilt, past hurts, and past wounds. 
 
Today’s guest is not only a former student in my signature program, Command the Stage, but she is a powerhouse who specializes in teaching brave women how to heal past wounds and embrace a life of freedom.
 
Latoya Mathews is an Inner Healing Coach, author & transformational speaker. After years of dealing with the shame and guilt of life after trauma, Latoya was given a crown of beauty instead of ashes and she transcends a message of love and empowerment. 
 
Latoya speaks with grace, which is the glue among the 5 pillars of freedom within her program: The Free Woman. In addition to group coaching, she also creates safe spaces for women to heal through her two-day transformational retreat, Woman, You Are Free and wherever she graces the stage to speak. Her ultimate mission is seeing more GEMs, an acronym that means God’s Extraordinary Masterpiece, which is what she calls the women in her community as she helps them reclaim their joy and experience the true freedom they deserve. 
 
Key discussion points from this episode include:
The Freedom To Tell Your Story - 5:55
Finding The Remedy To Freedom - 14:51
The Physical Manifestation Of Misery - 19:25
Processing Through The Lens Of Pain - 24:02 
How To Heal From The Past - 27:05 
Find The Lesson - 35:53
Use Your Testimony To Help Others - 39:22
 
This episode is brought to you by my new book, Redefine Wealth For Yourself: How To Stop Chasing Money and Finally Live Your Life’s Purpose. 
 
Through stories, principles, and practical exercises based on the Six Pillars of Wealth, this book serves as a guide to take you step by step through the process of creating a life of peace, purpose, and prosperity. If you’re tired of chasing money and ready to pursue your purpose, this holistic guide to wealth is for you. Purchase your copy today at RedefineWealthForYourself.com
It's Time to Get Free Takeaways
 
“What a loss it would be if you were not free to tell your story.” - Patrice Washington
“Every night I prayed for God to forgive me.” - Latoya Mathews
“How can we say that we believe God is a forgiving God, but then have these things that we don’t believe are forgivable?” - Patrice Washington
“We carry around heavy stuff for so long, we don’t know how to be free from it.” - Latoya Mathews
“I was still living off of borrowed faith.” - Patrice Washington
“If you’re unfulfilled in life, it will show up in your finances.” - Patrice Washington
“God isn’t going to give me anything that doesn’t belong to me.” - Latoya Mathews
“How can I take care of one, when I’ve given up one.” - Latoya Mathews
“Freedom is going to cost you something.” - Latoya Mathews
“When I didn’t have the recognition or achievements, I felt like I couldn’t be good enough for God.” - Patrice Washington
“Events that were traumatic left me with no choice but to get deeper in my faith.” - Patrice Washington
“The traumatic experiences we have are an invitation for us to grow intimate with God.” Latoya Mathews
“Everything happened for a reason, to get me to the point of where I am now.” - Latoya Mathews
“If you don’t show them God’s love then who will?” - Latoya Mathews
“In spite of our flaws and failures, we can still be used to be a blessing to others.” - Patrice Washington
“You can’t tell me anything about myself that I haven’t already thought about me.” Latoya Mathews
“If you’re going to continue to hold onto your story, then you’re holding someone up.” - Latoya Mathews
“I don’t only want to leave a legacy, I want to live a legacy.” - Patrice Washington
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
 
And with that, let’s dig into Latoya’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
 
Define Success:
“Success is waking up in the morning and doing what’s being asked of me; my assignment.”
 
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
“Jesus. Peace. Freedom.”
 
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level by Hendricks
 
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Latoya and the truth about wealth is it’s available to you if you choose it.” 
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This entire month is dedicated to letting things go. Whether that means letting go of limiting beliefs, toxic relationships, shame, or even guilt, letting go is the key to truly living your life’s purpose and walking in the freedom that you’re called to. 
 
There are so many things we need to let go of in life, but one that I’ve seen cripple most people is guilt. Guilt is rooted so deep within our hearts, it’s often hard to recognize we’re carrying it without consciously acknowledging where it originated. We can only recondition what we first recognize, and a book that does a beautiful job at helping readers remove guilt and move past shame is, “Let Go Of The Guilt” by Valorie Burton.   
 
National bestselling author, international speaker and life strategist Valorie Burton is the founder and CEO of the Coaching and Positive Psychology (CaPP) Institute. Her life-changing message has an intriguing, research-based emphasis in the pioneering field of applied positive psychology – the study of what happens when things go right with us. 
 
Her company provides coaching, coach training and resilience training and has served clients in all 50 states and 15 countries on six continents. Since 1999, she has written 13 books on personal development translated into nine languages, including the bestsellers Successful Women Think Differently, Successful Women Speak Differently, What’s Really Holding You Back?, and the most recent book Let Go of the Guilt.
 
Valorie teaches that resilience is a skill that can be learned – and anyone who wants to have fulfillment, high impact and success must learn it. Today she breaks down how we can stop beating ourselves up and take back our joy, by letting go of guilt.
 
Key discussion points from this episode include:
The Persistent Feeling Of Guilt - 7:53
Authentic Guilt vs. False Guilt - 10:50
Overcompensating Because Of Guilt - 13:25
The Stress Of Unspoken Guilt - 17:55
Mom Guilt & Women Guilt - 23:00
Show Yourself Grace - 26:00
Spirituality & Guilt - 27:49
Embrace Your Story - 34:50
Flip The Guilt Trip - 38:32
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Let Go Of The Guilt Takeaways
 
“There is a guilt gender gap.” - Valorie Burton
“Guilt is what we feel when we think we’ve done something wrong.”- Valorie Burton 
“False guilt isn’t that you’ve done something wrong, it’s just that you feel like you’ve done something wrong.”- Valorie Burton 
“If you don’t question it, then you’ll behave as though you’re guilty.”- Valorie Burton 
“Guilt is a debt.”- Valorie Burton 
“Guilt tries to hijack your decisions.” - Valorie Burton 
“Mom Guilt is very real.” - Valorie Burton
“Guilt can follow you throughout the day.” - Patrice Washington
“Show yourself grace.” - Patrice Washington
“I truly believe that most of the time we’re doing the best that we can with where we are at that moment." - Valorie Burton
"God is forgiving, He’s a God of grace and He knows we’re not perfect.” - Valorie Burton
“In order to move forward you have to be willing to forgive yourself.” - Valorie Burton
“My biggest failures made me more compassionate.” - Valorie Burton
“Embrace your story.” - Valorie Burton 
“Guilt is when I've done something wrong, but shame is a step further and believing that who I am is wrong and therefore I must hide it from you.” - Valorie Burton
“When you begin operating from a place of joy, peace, and truth instead of guilt, you’ll begin to see the outcome that you desire.” - Valorie Burton
“No one can make you feel guilty unless they find a vulnerable spot they can tap into that you deep down might agree with.” - Valorie Burton
“People who are guilt trippers are very good at finding the people who are guilt prone.” - Valorie Burton
“You have to enforce your own boundaries, not just set them, but enforce them.” - Patrice Washington
“Sometimes to help people, we have to stop helping.” - Patrice Washington  
“You can not achieve your goals when others are putting expectations on you that you receive.” - Valorie Burton
“There is no success without joy.” - Valorie Burton
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
 
And with that, let’s dig into Valorie’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
 
Define Success:
“Success is a harmony of purpose, resilience and joy.”
 
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
“Freedom. Generosity. Peace.”
 
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
Secrets of Six-Figure Women: Surprising Strategies to Up Your Earnings and Change Your Life by Barbara Stanny 
 
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Valorie Burton and to me, the truth about wealth is that you can have it if you’re willing to learn what it takes to have it and undo your bad habits.” 
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As we welcome our first guest in the Let It Go series, we dispel common myths surrounding the concept of surrender. While we often associate surrendering with being passive, a doormat, and broke, we limit the possibilities of what we could attract and fall into a cycle of limiting beliefs. It’s easy to convince ourselves that surrendering is weak and results in not getting what we want, but what if we surrendered and actually received more?
Today’s guest is a transformational powerhouse who truly believes in the Magic of Surrender.
Kute Blackson is a beloved inspirational speaker and transformational teacher. He is author of the national bestselling book You.Are.The.One. and his newest book, The Magic of Surrender: Finding The Courage To Let Go. Kute is widely considered the next generation leader in the field of personal development and offers a fresh, bold look at spiritual awareness for a whole new generation. 
Kute's mission is simple: To awaken and inspire people across the planet to access inner freedom, live authentically and fulfill their true life’s purpose. 
Key discussion points from this episode include:
The Inspiration Behind The Magic Of Surrender - 4:46
How To Make Peace With The Past - 14:52
Deal With The Grief - 23:50
Tune In To Purpose - 27:07
Four Questions To Find Your Purpose 33:51
Give Up The Need To Know - 38:59
Choose To Surrender - 45:27
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The Magic of Surrender Takeaways
“In the surrender, life will use you.” - Kute Blackson
“Let go of control and be open to something bigger than yourself.” - Kute Blackson
“Allow life to live through, move through, create through, and express through you.” - Kute Blackson
“What we think we want is only what we think we want based on who we think we are.” - Kute Blackson 
“You can’t be selective with surrender.” - Patrice Washignton 
“Surrender is simply letting go of control.” - Kute Blackson  
“The past is the past and no matter what you do or don’t do, it’s in the past and you can’t change what happened.” - Kute Blackson
“The only way we can grow, learn, and evolve is through situationships, relationships, and experiences.” - Kute Blackson
“The goal is not perfection. The goal is growth and evolution.” - Kute Blackson
“Surrender is a death.” - Kute Blackson 
“Not letting go and not grieving is an unconscious way to hold onto someone or something as a way to get a false connection.” - Kute Blackson
“Feel your feelings with awareness because all feelings have a cycle.” - Kute Blackson
“All feelings will begin to dissolve when felt fully.” - Kute Blackson 
“You are not the ego.” - Kute Blackson
“I don’t believe in people looking for purpose because purpose is already there.” - Patrice Washington 
“The purpose of life is to grow and evolve.” - Kute Blackson
“The ego wants to seek and never find.” - Kute Blackson
“You don’t have to know what your purpose is in order to live your purpose.” - Kute Blackson
“Purpose is revealed to us in the process of living life.” - Kute Blackson
“Anyone who developed true wealth focused on solving a pain, problem, or challenge.”  - Kute Blackson
“Money is a byproduct of adding value.” - Kute Blackson
“The key to surrender is giving up the need to know.” - Kute Blackson
“Be led to the next best step.” - Patrice Washington
“Be committed to the vision, not attached to how you get there.” - Patrice Washington
“We trust Siri more than we trust our souls.” - Kute Blackson
“Surrender is the password to greatness, freedom, and the next level.” - Kute Blackson
“There comes a moment in our life, where the life we have created for ourselves is too small for what our soul is seeking to become.” - Kute Blackson
 
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into Kute’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
“Success is expansion, growth, evolution and learning of the lessons where we are becoming more of our authentic self.”
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
“Being In touch with our soul.”
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
The Trick To Money Is Having Some by Stewart Wilde 
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Kute Blackson and the truth about wealth is there’s no limits. We don’t live in a universe of scarcity, we live in a universe of abundance. The more you give, the more you receive.”
 
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What do you need to let go of?
There are so many different things in our lives that are keeping us stuck. These things form clutter in our minds, our homes, our relationships, our hearts, our finances and our bodies, and they prevent us from having the clarity we need to walk in our purpose and build wealth.
I see it, not only in my own life, but also in the lives of others, and I’ve noticed that the more I release and let go of things that are from previous seasons, the more I see the possibility in what’s to come. We just have to let go first.
Over the next few weeks, we have an amazing lineup of guests who will be talking about freedom and the power of letting go. In this series, we hope to break the chains of those who carry unnecessary baggage from season to season and put practical steps in place that will help you let go of last season and officially live free.
Key discussion points from this episode include:
The Struggle Of Letting Go - 2:42
Reasons We Should Let Go - 6:34
Think of Life In Seasons - 12:58
Know When To Let Go - 14:58
What Are You Holding Onto? - 17:21
This episode is brought to you by my new book, Redefine Wealth For Yourself: How To Stop Chasing Money and Finally Live Your Life’s Purpose.
Through stories, principles, and practical exercises based on the Six Pillars of Wealth, this book serves as a guide to take you step by step through the process of creating a life of peace, purpose, and prosperity. If you’re tired of chasing money and ready to pursue your purpose, this holistic guide to wealth is for you. Purchase your copy today at RedefineWealthForYourself.com.
 
Let Go Of Last Season Takeaways
“Holding on because something is familiar is not an exercise of faith. It is truly an indication of us just making choices rooted in fear.” - Patrice Washington
“As we go from season to season, there are some things that need to be updated.” - Patrice Washington
“We hold on to too many things that don’t serve us.” - Patrice Washington
“If you aren’t shifting from season to season in your life, you aren’t growing.” - Patrice Washington
“One of my superpowers is resilience.” - Patrice Washington
“To everything there is a season.” - Patrice Washington
“I believe thinking about life in terms of seasons is what gives us the opportunity to make the best of what’s in front of us.” - Patrice Washington
“Fight for the gratitude today.” - Patrice Washington
“Embrace the season you’re in and know when to let go.” - Patrice Washington
“I’m more committed to being the healthiest version of myself, but that doesn’t mean I need to be the tiniest version of myself.” - Patrice Washington
“It is okay to let go of last season.” - Patrice Washington
“Some things you’re not going to see until you’re released first. That’s faith.” - Patrice Washington
“You need to unpack and take some stuff out, and let it go.” - Patrice Washington
“I want to be free in my next season.” - Patrice Washington
 
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Are you intimidated by the idea of talking about money?
Conversations around money in marriage can often be intimidating. Even the idea of combining two completely different lifestyles under one roof, carries its own fears and expectations. This is why communication is key to managing money as a couple. Without the collective ability to disclose personal debt accumulations, spending habits, savings goals, and financial fears with each other, you won’t be able to work together to build the financial freedom that you desire as a couple.
In this episode of the Redefining Wealth Podcast, my husband Gerald and I will be sharing some of the money lessons that we’ve learned over the last 13 years of marriage, as well as the steps we’ve taken to help us have intimidating money conversations. There have been so many ups and downs along our journey, but our underlying mission to communicate openly has allowed us to build the life of our dreams while chasing purpose and successfully saving for the future.
Key discussion points from this episode include:
How To Have A Collective Conversation About Money - 4:08
The Benefits of Weekly Meetings - 7:31
How To Initiate The Money Conversation - 11:49
Dispelling Money Myths - 13:40
Creating A Money Mantra - 16:25
Learning Each Other’s Financial Blueprint - 20:00
Setting Shared Financial Goals - 29:19
Apologizing When Needed - 40:30
Celebrating Every Win - 44:06
This episode is sponsored by SmartyPig. SmartyPig is a FREE, FDIC-insured, high-yield savings account that lets you set multiple financial goals and open simple savings accounts with visuals for each goal. SmartyPig accounts are offered through Sallie Mae Bank, a Member of the FDIC, and of course, all thoughts and opinions are my own. To learn more about SmartyPig visit https://www.smartypig.com/.
 
How to Talk Money with Your Honey Takeaways
If you’re committed to growing individually and collectively, the outcome will always be positive.” - Gerald Washington
“Understanding money reaches back to what we’re taught, and learned and saw.” - Gerald Washington
“Money Monday meetings bring clarity, security and comfort.” - Gerald Washington
“Family is a business. In order to run it successfully you need meetings to talk about everything so that everyone is on the same page and knows their action items to tackle for the week.” - Gerald Washington
“Our family meetings have allowed us to set goals, hit metrics, share responsibilities and support each other.” - Patrice Washington
“The biggest thing that people have to learn when married or in a relationship is that I don’t work for you and you don’t work for me. We’re in this together.” - Gerald Washington
“We’re classically conditioned as a society to take on these beliefs that are rooted in nothing.” - Gerald Washington
“Been there, done that, on the way back.” - Gerald Washington
“Men have to look at the entrepreneurial effort of their spouse as equally as they do themselves.” - Gerald Washington
“It’s never just about money, it’s always the thoughts and the beliefs that power the actions behind what you do.” - Patrice Washington
“Let him love you the way he needs to love you.” - Patrice Washington
“I don’t miss whatever the dollar amount was that was spent on the tickets. The only thing that I’m going to go to the grave with is the experience with my family.” - Patrice Washington
“I would not live the same quality of life had I just married someone like me.” - Patrice Washington
“When you have a shared goal it makes your individual decisions match the outcome of the shared goal.” - Gerald Washington
“SmartyPig provides order to everything that we’re doing.” - Gerald Washington
“It doesn’t take knowing everything to be successful in money.” - Patrice Washington
 
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