Redefining Wealth with Patrice Washington
The Redefining Wealth Podcast community believes that wealth is about more than money and material possessions; it’s actually about well-being. Each week, award-winning personal finance author, international speaker, media personality and your BFF in your head, Patrice Washington, shares solo insights or enlightening guest interviews that influence the masses to live their life’s purpose, find fulfillment and earn more without chasing money.
Episodes
Friday Nov 20, 2020
Dr. Vernell Deslonde: From Pain to Purpose
Friday Nov 20, 2020
Friday Nov 20, 2020
This is the final day of our week-long celebration of National Entrepreneurship Day and I am blown away by the awesome women in the Purpose 2 Platform program. You’ve heard so many amazing stories so far and today’s guest is one whose testimony will blow you away. Many purpose chasers have a story of triumph and challenge that brought them pain, but Dr. Vernell Deslonde is a woman who knew exactly how to take her pain and turn it into purpose.
Dr. Vernell is a passionate, purpose-driven woman of God who understands first-hand what it means to be a single mother after experiencing an unwanted and unexpected divorce and the added pressure of having more than 1.1 million dollars of debt with zero assets and negative net worth. Dr. Vernell is a published author of several academic journal publications, and a sought-after speaker, writer, and clarity coach.
In her book, From Pain to Purpose, Dr. Vernell shares her story of transformation, self-discovery, self-realization, resiliency, and discovering her God-led purpose as she battled with emotional turmoil, limiting beliefs, financial difficulties, and in the end, an abundance of joy. From Pain to Purpose is about revelation, reclamation, and how God used her painful divorce to propel her towards becoming her best version.
Key discussion points from this episode include:
Finding Courage & Confidence - 8:00
How To Stop Hiding Behind The Curtain - 10:03
How Vernell Took Her Pain From Purpose To Platform - 11:30
Why We Pretend & Hide - 16:00
A Daughter’s Perspective Of Overcoming Pain - 20:54
Managing Money & Financial Stewardship - 24:15
Vernell’s Results From The Purpose 2 Platform Program - 29:30
Advice To Turn Your Pain Into Purpose - 35:04
Connect With Dr. Vernell Deslonde:
Website: https://drvernell.com/
Instagram: @iamdrvernell
30-Day Prayer Challenge: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/5fb7178dca48da9e8a5f97f1
Courses: https://drvernell.com/elementor-151/
This episode is brought to you by Created For Purpose. This 5-day challenge is designed to help you get unstuck and transform your gift into a purposeful resource in the marketplace. Join us on December 7th and learn how to prevail online and thrive in turbulent times. To sign up visit patricewashington.com/challenge.
From Pain to Purpose Takeaways
“I grew up in the church and I knew about God, but I didn’t really know God.” - Dr. Vernell Deslonde
“When you literally or metaphorically live behind a curtain, others can’t experience the you that God has called you to be.” - Dr. Vernell Deslonde
“The Lord knows everything.” - Dr. Vernell Deslonde
“My very first prayer was, ‘God Help Me.’” - Dr. Vernell Deslonde
“When we hide the guilt, the shame, and the embarrassment we create a wedge between us and the very people we say we want to help.” - Patrice Washington
“I have an obligation, as a believer, to share my story because there are other people who are stuck in their pain.” - Dr. Vernell Deslonde
“I don’t have to down someone else to work on myself.” - Dr. Vernell Deslonde
“A lot of parents don’t tell our story because we don’t want the story to be weaponized.” - Patrice Washington
“P2P is where I rediscovered me.” - Dr. Vernell Deslonde
“There’s no straight line to purpose.” - Dr. Vernell Deslonde
“There’s clarity in the doing. The more that I felt like I was doing, the clearer I became on what God was calling me to do.” - Dr. Vernell Deslonde
“The foundation of it all is relationship with God.” - Dr. Vernell Deslonde
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into Dr. Vernell’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
“Success is knowing the thing that God has called you to do.”
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
"Finding Godly Fulfillment"
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
The Total Money Makeover: A Proven Plan for Financial Fitness - Dave Ramsey
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Dr. Vernell and to me the truth about wealth is spiritual fulfillment.”
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Thursday Nov 19, 2020
Gurpreet Kaur: Remember to Say Thank You
Thursday Nov 19, 2020
Thursday Nov 19, 2020
Welcome to day four of our week-long celebration of National Entrepreneurship Day. While many of us try to take the journey alone, I can’t express the importance of community and support when stepping into entrepreneurship. Being an entrepreneur is 70% mental and 30% physical, and our thoughts, beliefs and state of mind play the most important role in building success and maintaining peace.
Both in life and in business, we all need support and someone whom we can be vulnerable with and bounce ideas off of. When we try to do it alone, we allow doubt and fear to step in and stop us from living our best life. Today’s guest spent years battling depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts, until gratitude became the focus that pushed her out of pain and into purpose.
Gurpreet Kaur is a Mindset Transformation Coach from Northern Ireland who is on a mission to help others feel happier, more confident and in control in a world that seems ever more chaotic and filled with fear.
Diagnosed with depression at 19, Gurpreet found herself riddled with sadness and guilt as the years went by. After meeting and marrying the love of her life, she soon realized that marriage didn't magically do what she hoped it would. It didn't erase the pain, fix the relationships or suddenly make her feel like she was good enough, pretty enough or worthy enough.
Fifteen years later, Gurpreet experienced a divine interruption that took her on a journey toward forgiveness and compassion for herself and others. Now an international speaker, Gurpreet is described as “inspirational and a life changing presence” by her clients. It is her purpose to ensure that anyone she ever comes in contact with knows that there is a power that is unlocked when one has faith and gratitude.
Key discussion points from this episode include:
Speaking Opportunities Into Existence - 4:29
The Journey To Launch - 10:01
Salvation From Suicide & Depression - 13:25
From Purpose To Platform - 18:32
The Simpler Method & Minding The Gaps - 21:07
Preparation For Such A Time As This - 23:11
Fulfillment & Feedback - 26:43
Connect With Gurpreet Kaur:
Website: https://www.intuitive-knowledge.com/
Instagram: @intuitive.knowledge
This episode is brought to you by Created For Purpose. This 5-day challenge is designed to help you get unstuck and transform your gift into a purposeful resource in the marketplace. Join us on December 7th and learn how to prevail online and thrive in turbulent times. To sign up visit patricewashington.com/challenge.
Remember to Say Thank You Takeaways
“God sends you everything that you need the moment you need it.” - Gurpreet Kaur
“You can’t sell something that you’re not confident about.” - Gurpreet Kaur
“I couldn’t transform it into a business because I wasn’t able to think of it as a business.” - Gurpreet Kaur
“I was fighting to live a life that I didn’t want to live.” - Gurpreet Kaur
“Depression wasn’t going to take a holiday just because I had.” - Gurpreet Kaur
“When was the last time you said thank you?” - Gurpreet Kaur
“God was with me the whole time.” - Gurpreet Kaur
“The moment I knew that I had the power to change me, that’s the day I knew my God given purpose.” - Gurpreet Kaur
“You’ve got everything you need within you to do whatever you want to do.” - Gurpreet Kaur
“I strongly believe that we speak our life into existence.” - Gurpreet Kaur
“Money wasn’t where I wanted to begin, because purpose is where I began in the first place.” - Gurpreet Kaur
“Money is the natural byproduct, but what I’m more enamored with is fulfillment.” - Patrice Washington
“There may be people that you never meet, but to know that you left an imprint in their life, that’s what it’s all about.” - Patrice Washington
“The impact is beyond me, it’s beyond you, and it’s bigger than us.” - Gurpreet Kaur
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into Gurpreet’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
“I define success as being at peace and having pure faith.”
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
"Acting In Service"
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles
Also mentioned: Think & Grow Rich: A Black Choice by Dennis Kimbro
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Gurpreet Kaur and to me the truth about wealth is it’s an inside job.”
LINKS:
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Wednesday Nov 18, 2020
Megan De La Concha: Trust the Process
Wednesday Nov 18, 2020
Wednesday Nov 18, 2020
Today we celebrate day three in our week-long extension of National Entrepreneurship Day. So far we’ve heard from two women in my signature program Purpose 2 Platform who taught us how to stop shrinking ourselves and tell our story. In this episode, we’re learning how to trust the process and our guest is a woman who took a leap of faith, fully embraced her purpose and is now able to establish generational wealth for her family.
Megan De La Concha is a wife and mother of 2 who recently dove head first into purpose. Growing up in a middle class, conservative Christian household in sunny Florida, life was pretty normal for Megan until her twenties where she found herself surrounded by drug abuse and domestic violence, including mental and emotional abuse.
After losing her identity, voice and self worth Megan divinely landed in therapy, where she spent 2 years of hard work rediscovering herself. Tapping into her Faith and relationship with God, Megan has since earned three Masters degrees in Public Health focusing on alternative medicine and mental health.
She's the host of the PeP. Talks with Megan De La Concha Podcast and is developing her signature course, “Ashes to Grace”, designed to empower women with confidence, resilience, and transformation through FAITH using the G.R.A.C.E. method - God, Relationships, Awareness, Care, Excellence Everyday.
Key discussion points from this episode include:
Saying Yes To Opportunity - 5:27
Incorporating Faith Into Your Routine - 10:34
Megan’s Amazing Results From Purpose 2 Platform - 14:26
The Danger Of Dimming Your Light - 16:38
Finding Strength In God & Empowering Others - 23:30
Transitioning Into Entrepreneurship - 28:25
Creating In Community - 36:01
Invest In Yourself - 42:08
Connect With Megan De La Concha:
Website: https://megandelaconcha.com/
Instagram: @megandelaconcha
This episode is brought to you by Created For Purpose. This 5-day challenge is designed to help you get unstuck and transform your gift into a purposeful resource in the marketplace. Join us on December 7th and learn how to prevail online and thrive in turbulent times. To sign up visit patricewashington.com/challenge.
Trust the Process Takeaways
“I am walking physically in faith.” - Megan De La Concha
“God is the ultimate author. He just gives you the pen and the paper.” - Megan De La Concha
“I had a bag packed and hidden, but I didn’t know how to leave or where to go.” - Megan De La Concha
“Those pieces of you that are still laying there broken are still you. We need to pick up those pieces and put you back together in a different way.” - Megan De La Concha
“You are everything that you desire to be. It is already there.” - Megan De La Concha
“I knew what the future looked like, but I didn’t know what the journey looked like.” - Megan De La Concha
“It’s not for me to figure out, it’s for me to find out, because God has it figured out.” - Megan De La Concha
“I probably would have grown sooner, quicker, faster, if I had not been in isolation.” - Patrice Washington
“The only person that will allow you to fail is you.” - Megan De La Concha
“Invest in yourself and trust the Lord. You will never fail.” - Megan De La Concha
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into Megan’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
“I define success as walking in faith.”
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
"Loving Yourself"
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
Real Money Answers for Every Woman: How to Win the Money Game With or Without a Man - by Patrice Washington
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Megan De La Concha and to me the truth about wealth is trust.”
LINKS:
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Tuesday Nov 17, 2020
Lacy Fields: Tell Your Story
Tuesday Nov 17, 2020
Tuesday Nov 17, 2020
In honor of National Entrepreneurship Day, we continue to celebrate the amazing entrepreneurial minded women in my community, particularly highlighting those in my signature coaching program, Purpose 2 Platform. There are so many great stories and testimonies of women who have used their trials to propel them into their purpose.
When women show up and support each other, it’s incredible to watch them embrace sisterhood and help each other climb. Today is the second day of entrepreneurial greatness, and our guest is a purpose chaser who not only transformed the lives of the women in the Purpose 2 Platform program, but she utilizes her strengths and superpowers to help purpose driven women create transformational courses using their story.
Teen mom turned Course Mentor, Lacy Fields, created her award-winning mentoring program, U Go Girl, 10 years ago in her basement. After years of mentoring teen girls, designing youth curriculum and helping other women do the same, Lacy is now using her curriculum design skills to help purpose driven women create transformational courses using their story.
Equipped with her own story of triumphing over trauma, Lacy has not let her past stand in her way. Earning degrees and certificates in the fields of marketing, human services, coaching, holistic therapies, and presently clinical Mental Health, Lacy is more than prepared to complete her mission of helping women use their expertise to provide value in the marketplace.
Key discussion points from this episode include:
Lacy’s Story & Divine Intervention - 7:48
Using The Gifts That You Downplay - 11:03
How Serving Brought Support & Community - 15:55
Lacy’s Amazing Results From Purpose To Platform - 19:46
The Power Of Telling Your Story - 21:00
Sloppy Progress & Monetizing Your Gifts - 23:45
How To Own Your Story - 29:57
Connect With Lacy Fields:
Website: http://lacyfields.com/
Instagram: @lacyonpurpose
This episode is brought to you by Created For Purpose. This 5-day challenge is designed to help you get unstuck and transform your gift into a purposeful resource in the marketplace. Join us on December 7th and learn how to prevail online and thrive in turbulent times. To sign up visit patricewashington.com/challenge.
Tell Your Story Takeaways
“When we want the journey to look like what we want it to look like, we’re not willing to let it ride.” - Lacy Fields
“When it comes easy we dismiss it.” - Patrice Washington
“I want to see everybody succeed and use their gifts to shine.” - Lacy Fields
“Start out with the end in mind.” - Patrice Washington
“If I can help you, I’m stepping in to do so.” - Lacy Fields
“You have to dig deeper so you have more to give and receive more results.” - Lacy Fields
“I have a purpose, I have a gift, and I’m willing to use it.” - Lacy Fields
“I made more in 4 days of launching a business, than I would going to work for a full month.” - Lacy Fields
“Once you’re clear around who you are and who you serve, there are so many ways to reach your people that don’t require you to pay or build anything.” - Patrice Washington
“We look at our life and always see the bad stuff. Looking deeper, there was grace over your life during that period of time.” - Lacy Fields
“The world needs your story and they need your process.” - Lacy Fields
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into Lacy’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
“I define success as doing what you love every single day.”
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
"Peace And Blessings"
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
See You At The Top - by Zig Ziglar
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Lacy Fields and to me the truth about wealth is it is measured by the love you have for what you do.”
LINKS:
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Monday Nov 16, 2020
Evelyn LeVasseur: No More Shrinking
Monday Nov 16, 2020
Monday Nov 16, 2020
There are so many national days of celebration, but I recently learned that November 17th is National Entrepreneurs Day. This day is centered around highlighting and celebrating entrepreneurship throughout the country and sharing the stories of those who took a leap of faith, endured the challenges and trials of building a business, and designed their ideal lifestyle.
The work pillar is all about living your life’s purpose and getting the clarity needed to execute successfully. My main focus is to help people earn more without feeling like they have to chase, and I’ve watched countless women transform their lives and others by becoming entrepreneurs. For this reason, I found it necessary to turn National Entrepreneurs Day into a week-long celebration.
This week you can expect exclusive bonus interviews with amazing women from the recent cohort of my signature program, Purpose 2 Platform. Sharing how they gained clarity and now live purposeful lives, this week’s guest wants every woman to know that she can want to change her body, and love it at the same time.
Evelyn LeVasseur is the owner of Evelyn LeVasseur Fitness, a company that focuses on helping busy, overwhelmed moms reach their body goals without dieting or deprivation. Evelyn knows that moms can be especially hard on themselves and expect perfection: in our homes, jobs, marriages, and of course our bodies.
Most importantly, Evelyn knows that moms want what's absolutely best for their children, and having negative feelings about ourselves can lead our children to have negative feelings about themselves. So, Evelyn is sure to approach all things from the angle of knowing that our actions shape our children and the legacies of health that we leave them.
Evelyn is a certified Group and Personal Trainer, a Hormonal Fat Loss Coach, and has a B.A. in Psychology with a Masters in Education. She is dedicated to living her life to its greatest capacity and providing her daughters and all women the tools to live their greatest lives with strength, resilience, self-compassion, kindness, faith and health.
Key discussion points from this episode include:
Getting Clarity: The Journey From Teacher To Entrepreneur - 05:56
Allow Yourself To Feel - 10:30
Uncovering Limiting Beliefs & Overcoming Imposter Syndrome - 14:14
The Power Of A Strong Community - 16:58
Evelyn’s Amazing Results From Purpose 2 Platform - 19:41
Lessons Your Daughter Learns From Watching You - 23:35
Advice To Get Unstuck & Move Forward - 25:25
Sisterhood Beyond Skin Color - 28:41
This episode is brought to you by Created For Purpose. This 5-day challenge is designed to help you get unstuck and transform your gift into a purposeful resource in the marketplace. Join us on December 7th and learn how to prevail online and thrive in turbulent times. To sign up visit patricewashington.com/challenge.
No More Shrinking Takeaways
“The body is actually the end result, the change happens inside first.” - Evelyn LeVasseur
“If you can handle the mindset, the emotions, the triggers and the trauma, then naturally your body is going to get healthier because you feel better about yourself and you automatically make better choices.” - Evelyn LeVasseur
“I always equated vulnerability with weakness. So I never let myself feel the things I needed to feel in order to heal the pain that I was in.” - Evelyn LeVasseur
“You have to have a safe space to allow yourself to explore.” - Patrice Washington
“When you get to the point where you feel comfortable and you’re okay with your story, judgement can’t hurt you because you make peace with it.” - Evelyn LeVasseur
“We can’t raise strong women if we’re teaching them from when they’re little that they have to shrink themselves.” - Evelyn LeVasseur
“Just post it because nobody is an expert their first time.” - Patrice Washington
“Don’t let fear guide your decision making because you can fail and still get up.” - Evelyn LeVasseur
“Race does not affect the way we love each other. It doesn't and it never has.”
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into Evelyn’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
“I define success by waking up everyday and feeling loved and in love with the people I’m near.”
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
"Anything I Want."
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
Untamed - Glennon Doyle
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Evelyn LeVasseur and to me the truth about wealth is it’s available to anyone at any time.”
Connect With Evelyn LeVasseur:
Website: https://evelynfit.com/
Instagram: @evelyn_levasseur_fitness
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Thursday Nov 12, 2020
Alexandra Elle: After The Rain
Thursday Nov 12, 2020
Thursday Nov 12, 2020
How many times have you allowed validation from others to determine your self-worth? How many times have your decisions been based on what someone else thought was best for you?
I’ve met so many Purpose Chasers who have accepted the choices and opinions of others as validation regarding how they live their lives. Placing limiting beliefs on themselves and refusing to claim their power, I’ve watched purpose driven women use fear from past hurts to prevent them from walking into what they’re truly purposed to do.
It’s time to detach our identity from others and discover our own self-worth. It’s also time to learn how to heal from within and lean into the power that you are your own validation. Today’s guest is here to show us how to heal, after the rain.
Alexandra Elle is an author and wellness consultant who found healing through journaling. She teaches workshops and retreats that assist others in finding their voices through storytelling, poetry, and narrative writing rooted in truth without shame.
In her new book, After the rain, Alexandra releases a moving collection of essays that help to rebuild self-worth by tearing down limiting beliefs, dispelling imposter syndrome, and removing toxic relationships.
Writing multiple books and journals, most recently After the Rain, Neon Soul, and Today I Affirm: A Journal That Nurtures Self-Care, Alexandra Elle is on a mission to build community & self-care practices through literature & language. She is currently an author at Chronicle Books and the host of the “hey, girl.” podcast.
Key discussion points from this episode include:
Change: The Journey To Self-Discovery - 6:54
Creating Space For Motherhood - 14:05
Mending Parental Relationships - 19:12
Time: Lessons Learned From Absent Fathers - 24:52
Validation: Lessons Learned From Situationships - 30:28
Love: Learning How To Let Others Love You - 36:55
This episode is brought to you by our complimentary Purpose Chasers community. Want to share your aha moments with a group of like-minded purpose chasers from all over the world? Visit iamapurposechaser.com and join NOW.
After The Rain Takeaways
“I’m either going to fly or I’m going to fail, but I’m not going to not try.” - Alexandra Elle
“Trust yourself and prepare for greatness.” - Alexandra Elle
“Many of us have to be pushed into purpose.” - Patrice Washington
“Your life is valuable and you are important.” - Alexandra Elle
“Our children are supposed to be better than us.” - Alexandra Elle
“Be gracious to what people have the capacity to do and what they can’t.” - Alexandra Elle
“Your life is only going to grow to the extent that you’re willing to heal.” - Patrice Washington
“Time has given me the space to outgrow my old self.” - Alexandra Elle
“I’m starting to understand that I can be angry without letting anger stunt my growth.” - Alexandra Elle
“Self-worth is something that truly has to come from within.” - Alexandra Elle
“Holding onto what could have been doesn’t change what was.” - Alexandra Elle
“You have always been looking for people to validate your existence instead of leaning into the power that you are your own validation.” - Alexandra Elle
“At some point nice enough has to stop being good enough.” - Alexandra Elle
“Yes you can love yourself and let other people love you.” - Alexandra Elle
“Creativity is a form of emotional currency.” - Alexandra Elle
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into Alex’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
“I define success by feeling fulfilled in my heart and in my life’s work. Not by money, not by tangible things, but the feeling that I get showing up in my work, my motherhood, and my partnership.”
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
"Emotional-independence. Self-care as community care. Deciding to choose myself as a priority everyday."
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
The Artist's Way - Julia Cameron
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Alex and to me the truth about wealth is it all starts with you.”
LINKS:
To advertise on the podcast: http://www.patricewashington.com/podcastads
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Thursday Nov 05, 2020
Master The Margin
Thursday Nov 05, 2020
Thursday Nov 05, 2020
When was the last time you took inventory on how you genuinely feel? What isn’t working for you in this season or preventing you from who you say you want to become? It’s time we get to the root of what or who or where your peace is being robbed, and it can often be a result of how you master your personal margin.
Personal margin is the difference between your time and energy that results in peace.
Living in the midst of a pandemic has placed many of us in a negative space when it comes to personal margin simply because we didn’t establish a well-rounded perspective or view of how we could continue to move purposely through the world prior to change. Our routines consisted of bad habits that combined excuses, unused resources, and wasted time. We relied on one person or one activity to bring us peace, when we should have set time aside to do the things that bring us peace first.
What are the excuses you are allowing into your personal space that are contributing to you wasting time and energy and money that could be redirected toward your personal margin?
The six pillars of wealth contribute to how we are impacted by life’s events. When we take the time to focus on our space, faith, fit, work, people, and money pillars - we are able to achieve overall well-being, which we believe is the ultimate form of wealth.
In this episode, I want to share with you three ideas that I believe you can adopt today that will help you master the margin and reach a peace beyond understanding:
Take Inventory - 07:57
Figure Out Where Resources Are Being Wasted- 16:45
Spread Your Opportunity For Impact.- 25:33
We don’t just want to walk out of life with more experience or more money, we want to have peace as well. It’s time to become the master of your own life.
This episode is brought to you by my new book, Redefine Wealth for Yourself. We have compiled the greatest lessons and exercises that we’ve learned on the Redefining Wealth Podcast to bring you the ultimate guide to redefine wealth for yourself.
Want to stop chasing money, find fulfillment, and live your life’s purpose? Pre-order your copy of the book by visiting patricewashington.com/preorder/.
Master The Margin Takeaways
“Revenue is what comes in, but revenue does not guarantee success ” - Patrice Washington
“At the end of the day, if there is no margin, there is no business. You just have a very expensive hobby.” - Patrice Washington
“If you’re going to be the CEO of your life then you’re going to have to make the decision to literally take action and do away with what’s not working.” - Patrice Washington
“There is no point in taking inventory if you are not going to follow it up with action.” - Patrice Washington
“Very few people are super creative when they’re dead tired.” - Patrice Washington
“We have these unspoken expectations of people who can come in and help increase our margin, then we get them and waste the resources.” - Patrice Washington
“Make sure you have multiple ways to express your gifts in the marketplace.” - Patrice Washington
“We shouldn’t be so dependent on any single activity or any single person for our peace.” - Patrice Washington
“If you don’t have other ways of tapping in to personal peace, as soon as something happens you’re going to tap out.” - Patrice Washington
“No one else can come in and take care of me, the way I take care of me.” - Patrice Washington
“Having a space that you feel is yours adds to your personal margin.” - Patrice Washington
“If you say you believe in something, it is imperative that you make time to practice it.” - Patrice Washington
“We all have influence. An audience of one is still an audience.” - Patrice Washington
“You are the CEO of your life. Treat yourself like a business.” - Patrice Washington
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Thursday Oct 29, 2020
Lisa Lewis Miller: The 4 Pillars of Career Fulfillment
Thursday Oct 29, 2020
Thursday Oct 29, 2020
I believe that when you are unfulfilled in the thing that you do everyday, it has a detrimental impact on your finances. One of my goals this quarter is to help you establish clarity around your purpose so that you can focus on what’s next and truly build wealth.
When I was introduced to our guest this week, I knew that she would be the catalyst that you needed to hear from to drive you toward building fulfillment in your career.
Lisa Lewis Miller is a career change expert, author, and the founder of Career Clarity, a company helping individuals step into the careers they’ve been dreaming of. Lisa's work has been featured in Business Insider, US News and World Report, Fast Company, Refinery29 and more, and received her coaching certification as one of only 7 people in the world trained in the Pivot Method.
Lisa is also the host of the Career Clarity Show where she shares amazing tips every week to help you create a framework for career clarity and financial peace.
Sometimes you have the right gift in the wrong industry. Lisa is here to help you pivot and utilize your gifts in the career of your dreams.
Key discussion points from this episode include:
Finding Clarity & Purpose In Your Career - 6:50
How To Know That You’re Unhappy - 09:33
Facing The Things That Make You Doubt Your Gifts - 12:58
The 4 Core Drivers Of Fulfillment - 14:06 (continued - 26:00)
How Gratitude Shaming Leads To Settling - 20:30
How To Determine Your Worth Vs Your Market Value - 22:08
Finding Comfort in Saying No - 31:24
Advice For Multi-Passionate Purpose Chasers - 35:08
This episode is brought to you by my new book, Redefine Wealth for Yourself. We have compiled the greatest lessons and exercises that we’ve learned on the Redefining Wealth Podcast to bring you the ultimate guide to redefine wealth for yourself.
Want to stop chasing money, find fulfillment, and live your life’s purpose? Pre-order your copy of the book by visiting patricewashington.com/preorder/.
The 4 Pillars of Career Fulfillment Takeaways
“If you don’t listen to that feeling of tension burning inside of you, it can sometimes be easy to miss that you’re even unhappy.” - Lisa Lewis Miller
“Sometimes you have the right gift in the wrong industry.” - Patrice Washington
“We can not be in the business of weaponizing gratitude against ourselves.” - Lisa Lewis Miller
“You are a child of God. You are priceless. You can’t put a dollar value on your worth.” - Lisa Lewis Miller
“You don’t get hit by the luck truck unless you’re standing in the middle of the road.” - Lisa Lewis Miller
“Your market worth will never have any impact or your enoughness or your worth as a human.” - Lisa Lewis Miller
“A lot of people know what they don’t like, but they don’t have clarity around what they do like and what they want.” - Patrice Washington
“I can take less money if it’s going to be in alignment with who I am and how I want to show up.” - Patrice Washington
“You can’t miss your own boat. Your boat does not leave without you.” - Lisa Lewis Miller
“If you say no, it does not mean the opportunity won’t present itself back to you or become something that you yourself will create in the future.” - Lisa Lewis Miller
“If you feel like you can exhale, that’s wealth.” - Lisa Lewis Miller
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into Lisa’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
“I define success as feeling the way you want to feel in your day.”
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
"Autonomy. Comfort. Satisfaction"
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
MONEY Master the Game: 7 Simple Steps to Financial Freedom - by Tony Robbins
Also mentioned in this episode: How to Be Everything: A Guide for Those Who (Still) Don't Know What They Want to Be When They Grow Up - by Emilie Wapnick
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Lisa Lewis Miller and to me the truth about wealth is that it is more of a mindset than a bank account number.”
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Thursday Oct 22, 2020
Gary Williams: The Power of a Pivot
Thursday Oct 22, 2020
Thursday Oct 22, 2020
It goes without saying that we all had big plans as to what this year would bring. We walked into 2020 with a certainty that this would be our year, but then a global pandemic emerged, followed by unprecedented job loss and one of the greatest social justice uprisings of modern times.
Although many of this year’s events were unplanned, it is important to always look for the lesson or blessing in the unknown. Today’s guest aligns with this message and believes in the power of pivoting in order to break societal barriers and redefine resilience.
Gary Williams is Co-Founder and creative powerhouse of The Creative Theory Agency - a full service marketing agency specializing in diversity consulting and cultural storytelling. Gary leads and works with a team of award winning creatives including clients such as: Google, Youtube, Under Armour, Nike, BMW, and more. His impact connects companies and communities across the globe through the creation of compelling content driven by inclusive ideas and authentic narratives.
With grace he exemplifies the power of combining art, storytelling, and support by curating virtual experiences in impactful and thoughtful ways.
Key discussion points from this episode include:
The Creation Of The Resilience Project - 7:47
Amplifying Your Project By Aligning Your Mission With Sponsors - 14:49
The Importance Of Sharing Stories - 19:39
How To Handle Uncertainty - 27:20
Financial Literacy And The Connection Between Purpose and Wealth - 32:03
This episode is brought to you by Capital One. I love partnering with Capital One because we both share a similar mission and message. We are both passionate about purpose and community. When I heard of their latest initiative “resilience reimagined”, I knew that I wanted to be a part of telling the inspiring stories of individuals and communities who are finding new ways to work, connect, build, and grow in this new climate. Of course, all thoughts and opinions are our own.
The Power of a Pivot Takeaways
“Our plans might have changed, but our purpose didn’t.” - Gary Williams
“Our purpose is still the same, we just have to change the plan.” - Gary Williams
“Deliver the same value, but with the formats that you have available to you.” - Patrice Washington
“Stories make way for empathy, and when we have empathy we can better coexist together and understand each other.” - Gary Williams
“People need to see themselves in someone else's story to know it’s possible for them.” Patrice Washingon
“Resilience is my superpower.” - Patrice Washington
“Resilience requires relationships.” - Patrice Washington
“Blank slates mean opportunity.” - Gary Williams
“We operate in an understanding that things will change, things will come and things will go, but most importantly, what’s for us is for us.” - Gary Williams
“Be grateful for the work that we have and not broken by the work that we don’t get.” - Gary Williams
“I do what I’m supposed to do and let God do what I can’t do.” - Gary Williams
“I’m doing what’s naturally possible and expecting God to do what’s supernaturally impossible for me.” - Gary Williams
“When you know your purpose you can better understand how to operate in this world financially.” - Gary Williams
“Financial literacy and wealth is a major part of living a fulfilled life.” - Gary Williams
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into Gary’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
“Success is the ability to operate within your purpose without being attached to the method of how you get there ”
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
"Knowledge. Investment. Savings."
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
The Purpose Driven Life - Rick Warren
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Gary Wiliams, Jr. and to me the truth about wealth is it’s not attached to money, it’s attached to mental and spiritual health.”
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Thursday Oct 15, 2020
Rho Thomas: Face the Numbers
Thursday Oct 15, 2020
Thursday Oct 15, 2020
Are you spending next month’s money to cover this month's expenses? If so, no matter how much money you make, you are living paycheck to paycheck.
I want you to have the best year possible and as we continue in this fourth quarter, it is imperative that we are strategic and intentional about how we finish this year. So many of us live paycheck to paycheck and we don’t even know it, but we still have time to change our financial situation before the end of the year. This requires us to get out of debt.
If you are someone who finds yourself with multiple five or six-figures worth of debt, now is the perfect time to position yourself on the road toward financial freedom for 2021. Our guest today is a student in my Purpose 2 Platform program who took inventory of her debt and realized that she and her husband had more than $670,000 of debt. By intentional planning and budgeting they were able to pay off over $300,000 and all she and her husband did was face the numbers.
Rho Thomas is an attorney, mindset strategist, and personal finance coach who believes that true wealth is having control of your time. She helps lawyers make intentional lifestyle and money decisions to regain control of their time, build wealth, and live the lives of freedom and choice they deserve. She has been featured in outlets such as Yahoo! Finance, Refinery29, and Mic and hosts the Wealthyesque podcast, which explores how lawyers can achieve lifestyle freedom through mindset shifts and financial independence.
Debt doesn’t have to stop you from your purpose and Rho is an excellent example of that. Her story resonates with anyone in debt, and proves how even those who appear wealthy can still struggle financially. It’s time to face your numbers.
Key discussion points from this episode include:
Determining your net worth - 09:54
Steps taken to tackle your debt - 13:21
Setting boundaries and taking control of your money - 20:00
Universal lessons for any income level - 24:02
Calculating your financial independence number - 28:22
Words of encouragement for anyone looking to tackle financial independence- 39:50
This episode is brought to you by my new book, Redefine Wealth for Yourself. We have compiled the greatest lessons and exercises that we’ve learned on the Redefining Wealth Podcast to bring you the ultimate guide to redefine wealth for yourself.
Want to stop chasing money, find fulfillment, and live your life’s purpose? Pre-order your copy of the book by visiting patricewashington.com/preorder/.
Face the Numbers Takeaways
“I knew that we had debt, but we had taken it in pieces.” - Rho Thomas
“Because our debts were so large, our net worth was negative.” - Rho Thomas
“It’s important to look at what’s actually happening with your money and not just assume that because you’re following all the rules that you’re okay.” - Rho Thomas
“Once you’ve got your money together, then that gives you options.” - Rho Thomas
“My No Game is strong!” - Rho Thomas
“76 percet of households live paycheck to paycheck.” - Patrice Washington
“We all need to know how much money we’re bringing in and how much money is going out.” - Rho Thomas
“A lot of people are living paycheck to paycheck and just don’t realize it.” - Rho Thomas
“If you are spending next month’s money on this month’s expenses, no matter how much money you’re making, you are living paycheck to paycheck.” - Rho Thomas
“A lot of us spend so much money trying to look like we’re wealthy, instead of actually using that money to build wealth.” - Rho Thomas
“There is a blessing in downsizing.” - Patrice Washington
“The financial independence number gives you a goal to reach for.” - Rho Thomas
“I would rather have money and not need it, than need it and not have it.” - Patrice Washington
“What could have been a complete crisis becomes a mere inconvenience when you have the money.” - Patrice Washington
“As you put one foot in front of the other, make sure you track your progress.” - Rho Thomas
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into Rho’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
“Success is being the best version of myself that I can be and living the best life that I can.”
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
"Control of time"
One Book that Has Redefined How You See Wealth:
The Millionaire Next Door by Thomas J. Stanley
Your Money Or Your Life by Vicki Robin, Joseph R. Dominguez, Monique Tilford
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Rho Thoms and to me the truth about wealth is it gives you options and allows you to take control of your life.”
LINKS:
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