Redefining Wealth with Patrice Washington

Mastery + Momentum: Jael and Tamika’s Stories

What are you genuinely called to do and who are the people whose souls will connect?
While many of us try so hard to fit into the box that people put us in, redefining love requires us to trust ourselves and the vision that God has given us.  
This week on Redefining Wealth, we’re talking about the importance of soul care and how you can gain momentum with two members of our Mastery + Momentum Mastermind, Jael Anker-Lagos and Tamika R. Johnson. 
Key discussion points from this episode include:
09:25 - The Power of Saying Yes
14:30 - Expectations vs Reality of Mastery + Momentum
31:00 - The Importance Of Cultivating A Safe Space
43:00 - Embracing The Unexpected
50:30 - Conducting An Authentic Alignment Audit
Mastery + Momentum Takeaways
 
“You’re only going to grow to the extent that you’re willing to heal.” - Patrice Washington
“The real transformation is in people personally.” - Patrice Washington
“Ready is a decision.” - Tamika R. Johnson 
“When we leave space, and we don't say exactly what our vision is, then God is able to create something greater than what our minds could have ever imagined.” - Jael Anker-Lagos 
“Heart-work is the hard work.” - Patrice Washington  
“We trust each other to give perspectives out of love.” - Tamika R. Johnson 
“We are all here to compliment each other.” - Jael Anker-Lagos 
“There’s so much room for ‘And’ if we ask different questions.” - Patrice Washington
“When you can feel everything, you can have anything.” - Patrice Washington
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into the ladies’ responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
Tamika: “Peace.”  
Jael: “Recognizing you are whole.”
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
Tamika: “Multifaceted release.”
Jael: “Aligned with Heart.” 
One Book that Has Helped You Redefined Wealth For Yourself:
Tamika: Relentless By Tim 
Jael: The Game Of Life and How To Win It by Florence 
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
Tamika:“My name is Tamika and to me, the truth about wealth is that everyone can have it.”
Jael: “My name is Jael Anker-Lagos and to me, the truth about wealth is that it’s right outside your door. Are you willing to open it and let it flood in.”
 
 
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Connect With Jael:
Instagram: @risetorealness | https://www.instagram.com/risetorealness/ 
Website: www.risetorealness.com
Connect With Tamika:
Instagram: @tamikarjohnsonrealtor | https://www.instagram.com/tamikarjohnsonrealtor/ 
Website: www.tamikajohnson-realtor.com
LINKS:
Take The Redefining Wealth QUIZ: https://patricewashington.com/starthere/
Book Me To Speak: https://patricewashington.com/speaking/
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Shannon Thomas: What Healing Looks Like

We are only going to grow to the extent that we’re willing to heal and a part of redefining self love is learning how to acknowledge and heal from hidden abuse.
In this week’s episode, I’m joined by Shannon Thomas, LCSW, the international bestselling author of Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse and Exposing Financial Abuse: When Money is a Weapon.
Shannon is the Owner/lead therapist of an award-winning counseling practice in Southlake, TX. Thomas, Founder of the Keep Dreaming Big Project, a IRS approved 501 (c)(3), a certified trauma therapist and a fellow survivor of psychological abuse who is helping people around the world find healing.
Key discussion points from this episode include:
04:20 - An Unspoken Seventh Pillar
14:30 - How To Recognize Hidden Abuse
21:10 - Hidden Abuse In Religious Settings
30:00 - Identifying Signs Of Abuse While Dating
37:50 - Healing From Hidden Abuse
What Healing Looks Like Takeaways
 
“I equate hidden abuse to poison in water, ‘You don’t really see it, until you start to feel it’.” - Shannon Thomas  
“Psychological abuse is always there before a physical abuse episode.” - Shannon Thomas 
“Stone walling is truly the message of, ‘I don’t see you, you don’t exist and you don’t matter’.” - Shannon Thomas  
“It is a privilege to be in my presence.” - Patrice Washington 
“Psychological abusers are attracted to success.” - Shannon Thomas   
“Collect impressive No’s.” - Patrice Washington  
“If I know where I’m not supposed to be, then I’m going to be really excited to know where I’m supposed to be.” - Shannon Thomas  
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into Shannon’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
“I define success by being at peace.” 
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
"My own freedom.” 
One Book that Has Helped You Redefined Wealth For Yourself:
The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Shannon Thomas and to me, the truth about wealth is you can define it for yourself.”
Connect With Shannon:
Instagram: @shannonthomas | https://www.instagram.com/shannonthomas/ 
Website: https://shannonthomas.com/
Counseling Practice: https://southlakecounseling.org/
LINKS:
Take The Redefining Wealth QUIZ: https://patricewashington.com/starthere/
Book Me To Speak: https://patricewashington.com/speaking/
Find Me On Instagram: @SeekWisdomPCW
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When to Walk Away: How to Stop Romanticizing Reality

In order to redefine and amplify self-love, we have to address and accept the un-romanticized reality that we are living in. We have to be radically honest with ourselves and become what we say we desire, and we have to put in the time to do both the hard work and the heart work.
In this week’s episode, I’m breaking down how to stop romanticizing reality and how to prepare when you know that it’s time to walk away.
Key discussion points from this episode include:
05:00 - Stop Romanticizing Reality
14:00 - Create A Process For Processing
25:00 - Love Yourself Enough To Honor You
32:00 - Prepare For Your Exit 
39:50 - Choose How You Want To Participate
When to Walk Away Takeaways
 
“As you increase self-love your tolerance for what doesn’t serve you decreases.” - Patrice Washington
“The hard work is always the heart-work.” - Patrice Washington  
“I believe that when we rationalize, we're rationing out lies.” - Patrice Washington 
“If we believe that God is our source, anything else is just a resource.” - Patrice Washington  
“Not being radically honest is costing us something every time we refuse to give voice to truth.” - Patrice Washington   
“Being able to love someone else begins with being able to love myself enough to tell them the truth about what I see.” - Patrice Washington  
“Decisions become easier when I prioritize and value peace over appearances.” - Patrice Washington 
“An apology without change, in my eyes, is manipulation.” - Patrice Washington  
“Stop romanticizing reality and tell yourself the truth.” - Patrice Washington 
LINKS:
Take The Redefining Wealth QUIZ: https://patricewashington.com/starthere/
Book Me To Speak: https://patricewashington.com/speaking/
Find Me On Instagram: @SeekWisdomPCW
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Anthony O’Neal: Embracing Your Single Season

Redefining Love involves navigating the world of dating and relationships, which can be both terrifying and terrific all at once. While marriage is usually glorified in our society, I’m learning to embrace my single season and enjoy the connections that I’m able to make along the way. 
In this week’s episode, I’m joined by my friend, a national bestselling Author, Educator, Speaker, and Host of one of the top financial podcasts, Anthony O'Neal. 
Anthony went from being 19, and $35,000 in debt, to debt-free and living his life’s purpose, and as the Host of The Table with AO, he now strives to have REAL, RELATABLE & RELEVANT conversations that guide ambitious and purpose-minded people on a journey towards mental, spiritual and financial freedom.
Key discussion points from this episode include:
03:50 - Enjoy Your Single Season
07:50 - What’s On Your Dating List
19:00 - Relationships Require Vulnerability 
38:50 - Invest In You To Prepare For The One
45:00 - Help A Bear Build
48:10 - The Single’s Blueprint
Embracing Your Single Season Takeaways
 
“I’m enjoying my single season.” - Anthony O'Neal
“Men are going to cover up their vulnerable side until a woman allows us to open up.” - Anthony O'Neal 
“If you have a man that is not vulnerable or emotional, it’s not his fault.” - Anthony O'Neal   
“I’m really investing in me being a healthier version of a man.” - Anthony O'Neal
“Become what you’re trying to attract.” - Anthony O'Neal  
“The difference between someone who is successful and non-successful is they allow their moods to impact their moments.” - Anthony O'Neal
“Sometimes people are not emotionally mature to process the truth.” - Anthony O'Neal
“Help a bear build.” - Anthony O'Neal 
“If she can not submit to God, she cannot submit to man.” - Anthony O'Neal 
“Don’t allow your comfort zone to become your kill zone.” - Anthony O'Neal  
“Your network is greater than your net worth.” - Anthony O'Neal
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into Anthony’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
“Success is how many people have I helped to get out of debt and build wealth.” 
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
"Joy, Peace, Love.” 
One Book that Has Helped You Redefined Wealth For Yourself:
Think and Grow Rich: A Black Choice by Dennis Kimbro
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is AO, short for Anthony O'Neal and the truth about wealth is ‘God is good’.”
Connect With Anthony:
Instagram: @anthonyoneal | https://www.instagram.com/anthonyoneal/ 
Website: https://www.anthonyoneal.com/
Podcast: The Table With AO | https://www.youtube.com/@anthonyoneal
The Single’s Playbook Quiz: https://take.singlesplaybookquiz.com/
LINKS:
Take The Redefining Wealth QUIZ: https://patricewashington.com/starthere/
Book Me To Speak: https://patricewashington.com/speaking/
Find Me On Instagram: @SeekWisdomPCW
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Lacee Green: Fitness is a Feeling

Redefining Love requires prioritizing our health and well-being by protecting the only vessel we’re going to get. Our fitness journey is forever and learning to love our body is a key element in our journey to well-being. 
In this week’s episode, I’m joined by Entrepreneur, Mom, Certified Fitness Instructor, Gym Owner, and BeachBody/BODi Super Trainer, Lacee Green. With more than a decade of experience helping people live their best lives, Lacee is committed to showing that fitness comes in every shape, size, and color, and that every body is beautiful.
Key discussion points from this episode include:
04:45 - Redefining Health & Fitness
13:45 - Purpose Requires You To Protect Your Vessel
20:10 - Define How You See Yourself 
25:00 - Build Up Your Confidence In Yourself
30:25 - Work On Your Health Esteem 
36:30 - For Beginner’s Only
Fitness is a Feeling Takeaways
 
“I feel like I am 1000% walking in my purpose.” - Lacee Green 
“Fitness is a feeling.” - Lacee Green  
“I love myself enough to be the happiest and healthiest version of me.” - Lacee Green
“Our health is our greatest wealth.” - Lacee Green  
“We have a duty and a responsibility to protect the only vessel we’re going to get.” - Patrice Washington 
“We are so much more than just a number on a scale or a pants size.” - Lacee Green 
“Find the joy and drop the judgment.” - Lacee Green
“Health esteem is loving who you are and the person that you are becoming.” - Lacee Green 
“We’re not here for a long time, we’re here for a great time.” - Lacee Green  
“Our fitness journey is forever.” - Lacee Green
 
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into Lacee’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
“At the end of the day, loving myself.” 
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
"Love, purpose, soulfulness.” 
One Book that Has Helped You Redefined Wealth For Yourself:
The Perfection Detox by Petra Kolber
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Lacee Green and the truth about wealth is defining what is most valuable to you in your life as you follow this journey, one day at a time, in alignment in your soul.” 
Connect With Lacee:
Instagram: @thecurvygirltrainer | https://www.instagram.com/thecurvygirltrainer/?hl=en 
For Beginner’s Only: https://www.beachbodyondemand.com/blocks/for-beginners-only/start-here
LINKS:
Take The Redefining Wealth QUIZ: https://patricewashington.com/starthere/
Book Me To Speak: https://patricewashington.com/speaking/
Find Me On Instagram: @SeekWisdomPCW
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Karli Harvey Raymond: Who’s In Your Corner?

Redefining Love involves reanalyzing, removing and restoring relationships with people in every area of my life. It’s about understanding who’s in my corner, and who I need to establish boundaries with. 
In this week’s episode, I invite you into a conversation with one of my best friends, a relationship that means the world to me, Karli Harvey Raymond.
Karli is an Entrepreneur, International Host, Wife and Mother. She’s the CEO of New Heights Unlimited and the owner of a multi-million dollar top producing insurance agency. Karli is also a lifestyle maven and a business powerhouse who can light up any room and any stage. 
Key discussion points from this episode include:
07:00 - The Power Of A Praying Friendship
14:25 - Hold Space For Transparency & Non-Judgement
24:25 - The Connection Between Pleasure & Purpose
32:00 - Create The Life You Desire
Who’s In Your Corner Takeaways
 
“Oftentimes we don’t get to hear the hearts of our friends.” - Karli Harvey Raymond
“God is in all things.” - Karli Harvey Raymond
“God hears the cries of the desperate.” - Karli Harvey Raymond
“Sometimes people aren’t looking for advice, they just need a listening ear.” - Karli Harvey Raymond
“I’m not going to see you suffering and then pray that you stay suffering.” - Karli Harvey Raymond
“I’m asking that God give you the tools that you need on the journey for wherever you are on the journey.” - Karli Harvey Raymond 
“We can’t find the pleasure in our lives if we are constantly bogged down by the suffering.” - Karli Harvey Raymond 
“The longest relationship you’ll have with anyone is the relationship you have with yourself.” - Karli Harvey Raymond 
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into Karli’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
“Time.” 
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
"Love, freedom, pleasure.” 
One Book that Has Helped You Redefined Wealth For Yourself:
Boundaries in Dating: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Relationships by Henry Cloud & John Townsend
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Karli Harvey Raymond and the truth about wealth is you will have to define it for yourself. It is an inside job, baby.”
Connect With Karli:
Instagram: @iamkarliraymond | https://www.instagram.com/iamkarliraymond/?hl=en 
LINKS:
Take The Redefining Wealth QUIZ: https://patricewashington.com/starthere/
Book Me To Speak: https://patricewashington.com/speaking/
Find Me On Instagram: @SeekWisdomPCW
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Nakeia Homer: It’s All Coming Together Now

Are you struggling to find meaning in your life? "Have you ever felt like a walking contradiction? 
Despite growing up in the projects, Bestselling Author, Well-being Educator, and Self-healing Guide, Nakeia Homer never lost sight of who she wanted to become. She not only turned her wounds into wisdom, but she is on a mission to help others find value in their own life experiences and guide them towards creating a life of meaning and purpose. 
In this episode, Nakeia shares Her story, and dives into her latest book, All The Right Pieces. 
Key discussion points from this episode include:
04:50 - Having The Will To Survive
16:30 - Become The Best Version Of Yourself
22:00 - Embracing All The Pieces Of You
31:50 - How To Respect Your Younger Self
45:45 - What To Stop In Order To Heal
It’s All Coming Together Now Takeaways
 
“I've been fighting since I've been in the womb.” - Nakeia Homer 
“I finally am okay with all of me.” - Nakeia Homer
“Show some respect to the version of yourself that didn't give up when you should have.” - Nakeia Homer 
“She finally realized what she was carrying and decided to protect it at all costs.” - Nakeia Homer
“We give so much of ourselves to other people and very little to ourselves. - Nakeia Homer
“We’re invoicing people for things they didn’t even agree to.” - Nakeia Homer 
“I don't need an apology to heal.” - Nakeia Homer 
“Healing is responding better and better each time.” - Nakeia Homer  
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into Nakeia’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
“Being okay.” 
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
"I got options.” 
One Book that Has Helped You Redefined Wealth For Yourself:
You’re A Badass At Making Money by Jen Sincero
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Nakeia and for me the truth about wealth is that I have a right to it.” 
Connect With Nakeia:
Instagram: @nakeiahomer | https://www.instagram.com/nakeiahomer/ 
All The Right Pieces Book: https://a.co/d/4xAJYL2
Website: https://nakeiahomer.com/
LINKS:
Take The Redefining Wealth QUIZ: https://patricewashington.com/starthere/
Book Me To Speak: https://patricewashington.com/speaking/
Find Me On Instagram: @SeekWisdomPCW
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Dr. Thema Bryant: Come Home to Yourself

As I Redefine Love and embrace what it looks like in this new season of my life, one of the books that has been instrumental to my healing is Homecoming, by Dr. Thema Bryant. 
Dr. Thema is an Author, Psychologist, Minister, and Sacred Artist, as well as Host of the Homecoming Podcast, a mental health podcast that helps others Overcome Fear And Trauma To Reclaim Their Whole, Authentic Self.
In this episode, Dr. Thema discusses why we all can benefit from a personal and professional Homecoming and why it’s okay to not heal overnight. 
Key discussion points from this episode include:
08:30 - How To Come Home To Self Personally
21:40 - Identifying Distractions That Disconnect Us
30:53 - How To Bring Your Heart Back
38:30 - Why We Should Dare To Dream Again
45:15 - How To Come Home To Self Professionally
Come Home to Yourself Takeaways
 
“Leaving can be success.” - Dr. Thema Bryant 
“Truth telling necessitates action.” - Dr. Thema Bryant 
“It’s costly to be dishonest with ourselves.” - Patrice Washington
“Joy is a decision.” - Dr. Thema Bryant  
“We are worthy of having an intimate space where we’re not constantly being wounded.” - Dr. Thema Bryant 
“As you connect with your body more, you will animate your heart.” - Dr. Thema Bryant 
“I want to give myself permission for the full range of human emotion.” - Dr. Thema Bryant
“I refuse to participate in the silencing of myself.” - Dr. Thema Bryant 
“With healing, you will show up differently.” - Dr. Thema Bryant   
Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
And with that, let’s dig into Dr. Thema’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
Define Success:
“Utilizing all of my gifts to the point of fulfillment.” 
Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
"Abundance and overflow.” 
One Book that Has Helped You Redefined Wealth For Yourself:
Daughter Drink This Water by Jaiya John
Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
“My name is Thema Simone and for me the truth about wealth is the goal is collective liberation, not an individual story.”
Connect With Dr. Thema
Instagram: @dr.thema | https://www.instagram.com/dr.thema/ 
Homecoming Book: https://a.co/d/1Uqv45x
Homecoming Podcast | https://drthema.com/podcast/
Website: https://drthema.com/
LINKS:
Take The Redefining Wealth QUIZ: https://patricewashington.com/starthere/
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Redefining Love Is A Part Of Wealth

Welcome Back to Season 9 of The Redefining Wealth Podcast! This season, we’re choosing to intentionally focus on self, and address the underlying issues that prevent us from embracing self love. Redefining Love is a part of wealth and to kick off the new season, this episode reveals why learning how to truly love myself has given me permission to live my life’s purpose.
 
Key discussion points from this episode include:
07:45 - Why I’m Redefining Self Love
11:00 - FIT Pillar: How To Become Your Best Self
15:00 - PEOPLE Pillar: Why it’s important to create relationships that matter 
23:00 - SPACE Pillar: How to set up your life to support you
26:20 - FAITH Pillar: Do you believe in something greater? 
30:20 - WORK Pillar: How to exercise self love in the work you do. 
33:20 - MONEY Pillar - How to attract the abundance you desire. 
Redefining Love Is Apart of Wealth Takeaways
 
“Mindset is 80% of the journey.” - Patrice Washington 
“I am exactly who I’ve always been.” - Patrice Washington 
“Clutter is the physical manifestation of chaos in your mind.” - Patrice Washington
“I had to give myself time to literally clear through digital clutter.” - Patrice Washington  
“Self love looks like really allowing my definition and idea of God to be expanded.” - Patrice Washington 
“Pay for peace.” - Patrice Washington
“Release the idea of funding frustration.” - Patrice Washington 
“I love myself too much to leave here without my affairs in order.” - Patrice Washington 
“Purpose leads to fulfillment.” - Patrice Washington   
LINKS:
START HERE: https://patricewashington.com/starthere/
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Redefine Wealth For Yourself Book: http://redefinewealthforyourself.com/
Become An Official Purpose Chaser: https://www.facebook.com/groups/redefiningwealthcommunity/?ref=bookmarks
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Pillar Mastery is Here!

I know the podcast is currently out of season, but I felt led to share a recent download that I believe will help you make 2023 the most intentional year of your life! 
Your business and your finances will only grow to the extent that you’re willing to heal and to help align yourself on the path toward what you truly desire; I've created a 6-week micromind, called Pillar Mastery. Tune in to learn more!
 
LINKS:
START HERE: https://patricewashington.com/starthere/
REGISTER for Pillar Mastery: http://pillarmastery.com/
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Redefine Wealth For Yourself Book: http://redefinewealthforyourself.com/
Become An Official Purpose Chaser: https://www.facebook.com/groups/redefiningwealthcommunity/?ref=bookmarks
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